It Really Is About Resurrection | Matthew 22:23-33

It Really is About Resurrection!

Marriage is important on Earth, but in Heaven there is no marriage.  

All relationships will be perfect and God will provide the intimacy and closeness as our Heavenly Father.

Pharisees                          

Believed in the OT books.               
Believed in resurrection                  
Believed in angels                          
Heaven for God and His people      

Sadducees (not like Jesus – spoke heaven, judgment and hell)

Only first 5 books

No resurrection

No judgment or punishment

No heaven

Jesus quotes Exodus 3:6 (Jesus knows his audience).  Like John 3:16 to us today, Ex 3:6 to the 1st Century Jew.

God is not the God of the dead but the God of the living!


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What Does Jesus Say About Paying Taxes? | Matthew 22:15-22

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “What does Jesus say about paying taxes?”

Scripture: Matthew 22:15-22 (main);

Romans 13:1-7; 1 Peter 2:13-17; 1 Tim 2:1-2; Genesis 1:26-27

Bottom line: Jesus calls his followers to give back everything to God.

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. SERMON OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. MAIN REFERENCES USED

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study. Reflect and Discuss:

1. What were the underlying motives of those who questioned Jesus in Matthew 22:16-40?

2. What is at the root of all rejection of Jesus? (Hint: Read John 3:19-21.)

3. Explain why Jesus' question in Matthew 22:41-46 would have been perplexing to these Jewish leaders.

4. How would you respond to someone who said they rejected the authority of God's Word but they loved Jesus?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

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OUTLINE & NOTES

Introduction

Today we will answer the question: What does Jesus say about paying taxes?

We will also address the other question that Jesus answered: What does Jesus say about giving to God?

Story/Illustration:

Al Capone underestimated the IRS (Forbes Magazine)

“They (the IRS) can’t collect legal taxes from illegal money,” mob boss Al Capone once bragged (apparently).

Capone had murdered dozens of people, ran gambling and prostitution rings, and made a fortune bootlegging at the height of Prohibition. But who finally brought him down? The IRS, who got him indicted for federal income tax evasion in 1931.

They couldn’t get him for murder, gambling, pimping, bootlegging…but they were able to get him in the end—for not paying his taxes.

You’ve heard it said that we don’t HAVE to do anything but live, die and pay taxes.

We hate to pay tax and taxes.

We like to think it’s our money and that we know best how to handle it—all of it.

And that may be true. Or it may be short-sighted or even unwise even with governmental leaders who waste and misuse our tax dollars.

Jesus addresses this legitimate concern but then move to more fertile pastures. He tackles a subject much more important—should we give God anything.

This is not a message about giving money. No, this is much more important than that. This is a message about giving God his due. Giving God what is already his.

You. Me. Us.

Matthew, the author of the book of Matthew and one of Jesus’ followers, was a tax collector before following Jesus. And as profitable as that profession was in that day, he found something infinitely more satisfying—giving his life back to God.l

Bottom line: Jesus calls his followers to give back everything to God.

Outline

Q. What do I want them to know?

A. That we have dual allegiances in this life. (But not equal)

  1. That we are to submit to our governing authorities in all things, as long as they do not go against the moral law of God. Ex. Pay your taxes.

  2. That we are to submit to our Creator in all things, because this is the moral law in practice. Ex. Give as God has given to you.

But the issue is about more than money—much more.

Why submit to these authorities?

We submit to the God because he created us and designed us to a part of a beautiful world, albeit, a broken world where the beauty must come from the broken pieces.

This authority comes from his inscription or image or icon impressed on us—the imago Dei or image of God. This is his proof of ownership.

What are evidences of this?

Examples include that humans:

  • Have inherent dignity distinctly different from the rest of creation,

  • Have unique value and worth in the eyes of our Creator,

  • Have the ability to reason,

  • Have the ability to create or be creative, and/or

  • Have a moral compass from which to live.

In the course of submitting (following, obeying) to God, we submit to those authorities that God has put over us. That starts with our governing authorities like government officials, judges, police, teachers, and our parents.

Q. What do I want them to do?

A. Gladly submit to these authorities outwardly and inwardly starting with Jesus Christ, the author and perfect-or of our faith.

Q. Why?

A. Because he’s stamped us in his image. We are who we are because of his gracious act of creating us in the first place.

How?

Start by doing the next right thing.

  1. Respect your governing authorities.

  2. Pay your taxes. Obey the laws.

  3. Pray, asking God to help you submit to your governing authorities.

Conclusion

Bottom line: Jesus calls his followers to give back everything to God.

So we now know that Jesus thinks you should pay your taxes.

But, more importantly, we also know that this is just applying a more important principle. We give back to God what belongs to God.

Love

Honor

Obedience

Everything.

For we are made in his image.

Applications:

  1. Honor and obey your governing authorities (as long as they do not break God’s laws).

  2. Honor and obey your Creator and Redeemer with everything.

  3. Pay your taxes.

  4. Pray for your governing authorities.

  5. Lead others to do the same.

Which is easier: To walk forward or backward?

I run a few times per week. One of the things I sometimes do is run around a pond on the sidewalk. It’s narrow and slightly higher than the grass and dirt around it. So I don’t want to run off of it or I might turn an ankle or trip.

Running forward isn’t a big deal. I can see where I’m going easily and keep my eyes on the path ahead of me. Smooth sailing.

But running backwards, which works different muscles, though a good workout, is much harder. I have to turn my head around and keep looking. And since the pathway is continuously curving one way or the other, I often get near the edge. I’m constantly looking from side to side to make sure I don’t fall of the path.

Walking with Christ is the same way.

When I try to walk backwards constantly trying to stay on the narrow way by not sinning, it takes a lot of effort and I still find myself getting off track sometimes.

But when I turn around and walk forwards with my eyes ahead of me on Jesus, I find I don’t need to watch the sides of the pathway. Keep my eyes on Jesus keeps me on the straight and narrow.

Pray

NOTES

Wiersbe notes

  • Pharisees were ardent nationalists who opposed Roman rule.

  • Herodians were collaborating with and got their power from Rome so they were willing to cooperate and rule under Roman rule.

  • Normally, they were enemies but, in this case, they worked together to try and trap Jesus.

Reasons the Pharisees opposed the Imperial Tax:

  1. They didn’t want to submit to a Gentile power;

  2. Caesar was revered as a god; (blasphemy) and

  3. They had better uses for their money.

My thoughts…we’re not so different…

  1. We don’t like to submit to anyone;

  2. We think we’re god (at least we like to live like we are); and

  3. We have better uses for our money (certainly not God’s money)! “The earth is the Lord’s and everything in it.” Psalm 24:1

Trick question designed to trap him.

  1. If he opposed the tax, he would be in trouble with Rome. They’d report him for treason.

  2. If he approved the tax, he would be in trouble with the Jewish leaders. The people would have pause to follow him too.

“Give (back) to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s.”

Jesus taught several truths with this answer:

  1. Christians must honor and obey their rulers.

    1. Romans 13:1-7

    2. 1 Peter 2:13-17

    3. 1 Tim 2:1-2

    4. Christians have dual citizenship, in heaven and on earth. Therefore, we must

      1. Obey the law

      2. Pay taxes

      3. Pray for those in authority

  2. Christians must honor and obey God.

    1. Caesar’s not God or even a god.

    2. Gov’ts shouldn’t enforce religion and

    3. Gov’ts shouldn’t restrict freedom of worship. And religious freedom isn’t just being able to worship in our own buildings. It’s freedom to live out (and speak out) our convictions. Obviously with gentleness and respect. (1 Peter 3:15)

  3. Humanity bears God’s image and owes God his all.

    1. Caesar’s image was on the coin.

    2. God’s image is on humanity.

    3. God’s image is corrupted but it’s still there and it can be restored through faith in Jesus Christ.

    4. It is right and good for people to serve their government. (Think Joseph, Daniel or Nehemiah)

    5. But it’s wrong for gov’t to control the church or for the church to control gov’t.

O’Donnell notes

1. Who’s is asking the question? Two groups:

  1. The Pharisees—Pro Jewish Nationalists—sort of like MAGA republicans (pro America)

  2. The Herodians—Pro Roman Rule—sort of like progressive democrats (pro American govt)

Clearly, an unlikely alliance.

So, then it appears that the Pharisees ask their disciples to join the Herodians to ask this question of Jesus.

2. Why are they asking this question? Check out their motives:

  1. After hearing Jesus’ parables (about them), they “laid plans to trap him in his words.” (15)

  2. “But Jesus, knowing their evil intent.” (18)

Think a Fox reporter interviewing Joe Biden one on one. He/she is out to trip them up. Or CNN reporter interviewing Trump.

3. Where are they when they ask this question?  The temple.

4. What did they ask? “Is it right (lawful) to pay the imperial tax to Caesar or not?”

  1. REVOLUTION AGAINST ROME: If Jesus says “No”, then he admits his rule is rebellious as he is King of the Jews. And rebels get crucified by Rome.

  2. COLLABORATION WITH ROME: If Jesus says “Yes”, then the rumors are true and that he’s a friend of Gentile sinners *gasp* AND Roman tax collectors. (Not to mention Jewish ones like Matthew himself)

Instead, Jesus destroys their false dichotomy.  How?

  1. “You hypocrites, why are you trying to trap me?”

    1. A hypocrite means playing a part with a mask/costume.

    2. Think about some of our recent plays in the area. Kids dress up and play parts as if they are really that person or creature. They are playacting. This is where the word hypocrite comes from. Nothing wrong with this.

    3. Here, the opposition is playacting in a sinister way. They have smiles on their faces but evil in their hearts. They are trying to trap him and arrest him.

  2. So Jesus is exposing the hypocrisy of their flattering words right away.

  3. What’s their hypocrisy?

    1. Where are they again? The temple. Where Jesus overturned the tables of the money changers required because you couldn’t use pagan money to buy sacrificial animals. You had to exchange it (at high rates) for temple money because it was impure/unclean due to the graven image of Tiberius Caesar on it. In fact, people are probably still finding Roman coins on the ground from Jesus’ earlier rampage.

    2. So it appears that Jesus has no money (or at least Roman coinage) on him. O’Donnell writes, “So in the temple, to the super-spiritual, he says, ‘How about you? Any Roman coinage on you?’ And they unwittingly say, ‘Oh, sure. Here you go.’” Oops.

    3. Then Jesus asks, “Whose image is this? And whose inscription?” They answer, “Caesar’s.” O’Donnell again writes, “Yes. The image [or to use Bible language, the graven image, Exodus 20:4] that you hold in your hands is that of Caesar.” Ah, yeah, what are you doing with that?

    4. Portrait on the denarius coin was likely of Tiberius Caesar and the inscription likely read Ti Caesar Augustus son of the divine Augustus. On the other side was a picture of a seated woman (symbolizing Pax Romana or peace of Rome). There it would have read, “High priest” or “God and High Priest.” Yeah, not a great look when considering the first 2 of the 10 commandments.

5. Jesus’ final answer.

  1. “So give back to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s.” (21b) “Render” literally means “Give back”.

  2. If it’s Caesar’s coin (he in a sense, made it and gave it to them to use), then give it back to him when he asks for it (imperial tax for non-Roman citizens).

  3. In other words, pay your taxes. It’s not a gift and he’s not a god. But you are to give him back what is his already.

  4. Why?

    1. Because this is how governments work.

    2. Roman or American, governments use taxes to better a nation for a variety of reasons. The Romans understood this. The founders of America knew this. The Romans used those taxes to do things like:

      1. Build good, safe roads,

      2. Bring in water,

      3. Add public bath houses,

      4. Agricultural improvements,

      5. Educational improvements,

      6. And law and order.

      7. For this, they asked for a tax of one day’s wages. (Admittedly, this is still high for a very poor person) In America, we ask for your first 4 months of wages. But I digress…

  5. 2 parts to Jesus’ final answer:

    1. GIVE BACK TO GOVERNMENT. Give Caesar’s coins back to Caesar. This is the lessor lesson. This teaches us (as exiles 1 Peter 1:1) to respect our government is to respect God who put that government in power. Yes, even the bad ones. (See Romans 13)

      1. This is about more than paying taxes. This is respecting, submitting, and honoring governmental offices and those in them (even praying for them) as a way to respect God who instituted government in the first place.

      2. Caveat: If Caesar or the Congress create laws where being a Christian makes you a terrorist and subject to arrest simply because we believe and share the gospel, then it’s time for civil disobedience. And we must be prepared to pay the price of such revolution.

      3. Jesus, not Caesar nor our President, is Lord! (Or Savior, for that matter)

      4. Government is legitimate. Christians pay taxes to the glory of God and for the welfare of the city. (Jeremiah 29:7)

    2. GIVE BACK TO GOD. This is the greater lesson.

      1. Note the Hebrew parallelism.

      2. Note the second part is unnecessary. Jesus adds to his answer.

      3. Therefore, the addition must be important.

      4. In words,

        1. If you should freely give back to Caesar what is already his,

        2. then, shouldn’t you give EVERYTHING (back) to God almighty?!

  6. Finally: Our amazed response to all of this should be

    1. Adoration

    2. Allegiance

Blomberg notes

22:21 The answer to Jesus' question is obvious. His follow-up statement surprises everyone. In one of the most famous sayings in the Gospels, Jesus avoids the trap by affirming both what the Pharisees and what the Herodians hold dear. God's sovereignty must be acknowledged, but human governments also have a legitimate authority. "Give" means pay back that which is rightfully due. Some commentators have taken Jesus words as implying "give everything to God" because everything is ultimately his, but this interpretation destroys the delicate balance of Jesus’ reply as he seeks to evade both points of the two-pronged attack against him. Reasonable taxation is a legitimate function for all governments, even totalitarian regimes; how much more so with more democratic governments! Christians who avoid paying taxes, or who avoid paying the full amount of their taxes, sin against God even just as surely as in more obviously "moral" arenas. P. 331

Sproul notes

“The image on the denarius at that time was that of the Emperor Tiberius, who reigned after Augustus, from AD 14 to 37. Along with his image, an inscription was pressed on the surface of the coin: “Tiberius Caesar, son of the divine Augustus.” On the other side was the inscription, “High Priest.” The emperor was given this title because he was not only the supreme political ruler of the Roman Empire but the supreme religious leader, as well. He was regarded as a god.”

“Caesar’s status made for great difficulties and trials for the believers of the early church. Every Christian was required to swear a loyalty oath, saying, “Caesar is lord.” The penalty for refusal was death. Even so, many, when asked to say, “Caesar is lord,” responded instead by saying, “Jesus is Lord,” and that affirmation because the first confession of the early church. Those believers said: “Caesar, we’ll pray for you. We’ll honor you. We’ll pay our taxes. We’ll be good citizens. But you are not lord. Jesus is Lord. We will not worship you.”

“The coin bore the image of Caesar, so it belonged to Caesar. As the ruler who had been raised up by God, he had the right to ask the people under his rule to render to him that which belonged to him. So, Jesus was saying it was the obligation of the Jews, as much as they despised Caesar and his regime, to pay their taxes. At the same time, however, they were to give God those things that were His: the tithe and obedience in all areas.”

“So, whereas the Pharisees set up an either/or question for Jesus, He gave a both/and answer.”

“But our obligation to God goes far beyond the tithe. Jesus told the Pharisees and Herodians to render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, which, in that instance, meant the tax, for it was Caesar’s face on the denarius. But whose image is on us? Whose image do we bear? Whose image is stamped on our souls? We are image-bearers of God. We belong to Him. We owe Him not only our tithes but our lives.”

“Matthew tells us that they “left Him and went their way,” not God’s way. We need to search our hearts and make sure we are going God’s way, not just in paying our taxes and our tithes, but in all things.”

Excerpts From Matthew - An Expositional Commentary, R.C. Sproul

MAIN REFERENCES USED

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

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What Does Jesus Ask of His Disciples? | John 7:37-39

Title: “What does Jesus ask of his disciples?”

Scripture: John 7:37-39 (Main); Jeremiah 2:13; Exodus 17:6; Numbers 20:1-12; Psalm 78:15-16

Intro

The Pardoner’s Tale from the Canterbury Tales

Three lawless young men go on a search for Death. They think if they can find Death, they will be able to kill him. As they are searching, they meet an old man who tells them that Death can be found at the foot of an oak tree. Off they go to the tree. There instead of finding Death, they find eight bushels of gold. With Death now out of mind and greed in mind, they decide to sleep there that night and sneak away with the treasure in the morning.

Meanwhile, the youngest goes into town to buy some food and drink.

He also buys some rat poison and poisons the wine. He wants the gold all to himself. Ah, but the other two want the gold for themselves. So they plot to kill him when he returns. Sure enough that is what they do. When the man returns, they stab him to death. To celebrate, they lift their cups and drink the poisoned wine. They too die.

The old man was right. All three greedy men found Death under that tree.

Are you satisfied with your life?

Does Jesus truly satisfy?

If so, how?

Bottom line: Jesus truly satisfies when we come to him on his terms.

The Feast of Booths (Tabernacles) was a harvest feast which portrays the desert wanderings where they lived in tents for 40 years. Talk about a roving RV festival.

Exod 17:15-16

Numbers 20:8, 10-11 (1-12)

Ps 78:15-16

Jeremiah 2:13

““My people have committed two sins: They have forsaken me, the spring of living water, and have dug their own cisterns, broken cisterns that cannot hold water.”

Jesus speaks at a moment when one of their daily festival rites was climaxing where the priest would pour water from the pool of Siloam (healing/saving water) back to the temple in through the water gate at the blast of the temple trumpets with a crowd in pursuit, and on the last day he’d circle the altar 7 times (on the final day of the festival, 7th) when the priest would be joined by another priest carrying the wine. They’d ascend the ramp to the altar together. A pause as he raised the pitcher of water. Everyone wanted to see the pouring of the water at least once in their lifetime. And then he’d pour it on the altar. 

Wine. Altar. Water.

Cross of Christ—> Living water/salvation/healing/eternal life/satisfying life

It’s a this moment that Jesus cries out vs. 37-38.

Are we satisfied or thirsty?

Are we finding satisfaction in Christ?

Are we finding even more satisfaction in sharing Christ with others?

“My people have committed two evils: they have forsaken me, the fountain of living waters, and hewed out cisterns for themselves, broken cisterns that can hold no water.” Jeremiah 2:13 ESV

Jesus encourages the thirsty to find true satisfaction for their thirst. 

Unfortunately, most of us pursue other avenues to slake our thirst to no lasting satisfaction. We chase all kinds of things for satisfaction when the only thing that satisfies is life with Christ himself. 

Jesus said blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness. For they will be satisfied! (Matt 5:6)

How are we to drink this living water? On God’s terms. See this scene from CS Lewis’s the Silver Chair:

“How are we to drink this water? Although the offer is free and open to all, there are yet some terms to be met. C. S. Lewis in his children's novel The Silver Chair puts his finger on this in the clearest of terms. Jill, seeing a lion, is scared out of her wits and runs into the forest. She runs so hard that she wears herself out and is just about to die of thirst, or so she thinks, when she hears the gurgling of a brook in the distance. She approaches it and is almost ready to go to the brook when on the grass before her is the same lion.

"Are you not thirsty?" said the Lion.

"I'm dying of thirst," said Jill.

"Then drink, " said the Lion.

"May I-could I- would you mind going away while I do?" said Jill.

The Lion answered this only by a look and a very low growl. And as Jill gazed at its motionless bulk, she realized that she might as well have asked the whole mountain to move aside for her convenience. The delicious rippling noise of the stream was driving her nearly frantic.

"Will you promise not to -do anything to me, if I do come?" said Jill.

"I make no promise," said the Lion.

Jill was so thirsty now that, without noticing it, she had come a step

nearer.

"Do you eat girls?" she said.

"I have swallowed up girls and boys, women and men, kings and em-perors, cities and realms," said the Lion. It didn't say this as if it were boasting, nor as if it were sorry, nor as if it were angry. It just said it.

"I daren't come and drink," said Jill.

"Then you will die of thirst," said the Lion.

"Oh dear!" said Jill, coming another step nearer.

"I suppose I must go and look for another stream then."

"There is no other stream," said the Lion.

It never occurred to Jill to disbelieve the Lion - no one who had seen his stern face could do that -and her mind suddenly made itself up. It was the worst thing she had ever had to do, but she went forward to the stream, knelt down, and began scooping up water in her hand. It was the coldest, most refreshing water she had ever tasted.

Do you see what Lewis is saying? When you come to the water, you are coming to a Lion, you must come on the Lion's terms, and you have to yield yourself by faith in order to get the water. Some of us need to realize that we are thirsty, that we need that water so badly that we are going to die without it. We need to step out on faith, yielding to the Lion of the tribe of Judah, and receive the water of eternal life.” —K Hughes, John, pp. 220-221

7:38-39

“Jesus is saying that the part of us that is never satisfied, the part of us that craves so much, becomes, when we receive this water, the part that is satisfied.” —Hughes, p. 221

“Furthermore, not only does such satisfaction come to us in Christ, but it overflows to others. Notice that Christ does not say ‘river’ but ‘rivers.’ Rivers of living water flow out of us by virtue of the in dwelling Spirit of Christ.” Ibid.

Billy Bray was a dynamic Christian and British miner in the 19th century who so overflowed with the living water of Christ that wherever he went men trusted Christ.

Each day as he went down into the mines—very dangerous in those days—he would pray with the miners as he went down. “Lord, if any of us must be killed or die today, let it be me. Let not one of these men die for they are not happy and I am, and if I die today I shall go to be in heaven.”

“Power and overflowing joy—these are the characteristics of great drinkers of the Spirit. But the sublime irony in this is that we never experience satisfaction as we are meant to until our lives give satisfaction o others.” —Ibid, p. 222

You’ve heard the expression, “He drinks like a fish” referring to his drinking of alcohol. Oh that we’d hear of Christians “drinking like a fish” out of the fountain of living water. Not drinking spirits but of THE SPIRIT of Christ! Power & joy abundant and shared.

“Are you satisfied? Is your satisfaction flowing out to others?” Ibid. 

“During the desert wanderings that the Feast of Tabernacles portrayed, Moses smote a rock, and out of it came rivers of living (?) water for the people. That was a picture of Christ, and our Scripture refers to this in v. 39.” Ibid.

“Jesus had not yet been smitten on the cross and resurrected. Therefore the S;Iris had not yet come to indwell believers. In the wilderness, the first time the Lord instructed Moses to STRIKE the rock, Moses did, and God provided water. But the second time Moses made a grievous error. God told him to SPEAK to the rock, but in his anger against the people Moses smote the rock. Water nevertheless came out graciously from God, but Moses paid heavily for his action…Moses probably never suspected that he had ruined the type because Christ was not smitten twice but once. Again we see God’s provision and his grace.” Ibid.

“Our Lord is a Lion, the Lion of the Tribe of Judah, and we must come to him on his terms, thought he graciously invites us to communicate with him, to speak to him. Are you satisfied? Have you drunk long and deep of that water so that out of your innermost being are flowing rivers of living water? Is your life a beatitude to others? Whether or not that has happened, speak to him about it now.” Ibid, 222-223.

What do we need to do?

  1. Recognize that you thirst for something that exists. Your thirst for more than this life offers. Abundant life forever!

  2. Drink this living water. Drink deeply and often as if our lives depended on it. God gives us thirst so that we’ll know we need it satisfied and that there exists something that can truly satisfy. Drinking is believing.

  3. Pour out (spray, hose down, power wash) what wants out from within. God fills us up so that we have something to give. Our job isn’t to fill someone else’s cup. Our job is to empty our cup.

  4. Living water = Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit

    1. Immerses the person into this living water (baptism of the Holy Spirit)

    2. Saturates the person with the Holy Spirit guaranteeing he will finish what he started in them.

    3. Brings spiritual fruit in unlimited quantity. (Fruit of the Spirit)

    4. Brings spiritual gifts (at least one; no one has all) for the purpose of building up the body of Christ (the Church).

    5. He guides and provides all that we need to then go and saturate this world.

  5. Saturate this world with living water. That is the love of God through Jesus Christ.

Big idea/Bottom line?

What do I want them to know?

That Jesus satisfies us like nothing else. 

Why?

Because this satisfaction streams into our world and brings satisfaction there too.

What do I want them to do?

Drink deeply of this living water and share it with others.

Why?

For this leads to even more satisfaction.

How?

Come to God on his terms. He’s a lion and terrifying. Fear God. He’s also inviting you to come. Believe and receive this good invitation of good news that Jesus Christ truly satisfies.

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The Call of the King | Matthew 22:1-14

Fallen Condition Focus

We must enter into God’s Kingdom under the righteousness of Christ.

Introduction

Have you ever been invited to something so important there was no chance you

would say no to the invitation. I was thinking about this, this week.

If you recall now in Matthew we have reached Wednesday of what we call holy

week. Just a couple of days prior you may recall that Jesus had gone into the

temple and out of disgust for what he saw cleansed the temple.

Here Israel was situated on this land bridge that was centrally located between 3

comments. As travelers would come through, God’s design was that through

Israel, they would be pointed to the Lord. His Temple would welcome them into

knowing Him and worshiping.

But nothing could be further from the truth. They had perverted what had been

entrusted to them. To those they should have been ministering to, they were

exploiting for their own financial gain.

So it’s no wonder why Jesus removed them with such emotion. And I suspect they

were boiling about this all day on Tuesday. And in Chapter 21 we find them,

having licked their wounds, back at Jesus again with more questions designed to

trap him. By what authority do you do these things? Where is your degree? What

seminary gives you the right to be a teacher. And it is really this question, that

launches Jesus into a series of 3 Judgement based parables. Two of which we have

already covered, and the final one that I want to cover today, that we will call, the

parable of the wedding feast.

Trilogy of Judgement Parables

2

o Parable of the Two Sons (21:28-31)

o Landowner and the vinyard (21:33-46)

o The wedding feast (22:1-14) Read Text

22:1 And again Jesus spoke to them in parables, saying,

It’s very appropriate based on what we discussed earlier that Jesus would answer

their questions with a parable. A parable is a simple story, like an allegory, that

uses everyday experience to teach a deeper heavenly meaning. But more than that

these parables had a specific purpose to conceal the truth from the hard hearted

Pharisees and reveal truth to the humble would be disciples who would hear them

with open hearts.

[Mar 4:10-12 ESV] 10 And when he was alone, those around him with the

twelve asked him about the parables. 11 And he said to them, "To you has

been given the secret of the kingdom of God, but for those outside

everything is in parables, 12 so that "'they may indeed see but not perceive,

and may indeed hear but not understand, lest they should turn and be

forgiven.'"

So these parables are blessing are both a treasure to some and at the same time a

judgement for others. So Jesus continues to teach in parables.

22:2 "The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who

gave a wedding feast for his son,

Jesus is very clear about what this parable is about. We don’t have to wonder. We

are talking about the Kingdom of Heaven. Understand this is not some future

state Kingdom that we might find in the book of Revelations, although it does

include that, but Jesus has the present time in mind as he talks about the Kingdom

of Heaven. He is speaking of the area of God’s rule, God’s people who are part of

his Kingdom even here on earth. As we are saved even today we are brought into

God’s Kingdom. So Jesus begins to tell a story about what it is like to be a

member of God’s Kingdom.

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And he chooses to describe this as a wedding feast. Not just a wedding feast but a

royal wedding feast. One thing I noticed when I moved to Charleston was that

weddings are a big deal here. I can’t tell you how many times I have been on an

airplane flying back home to Charleston and the plane is filled with a wedding

party coming to Charleston to get married. But it was even bigger in ancient

Jerusalem. In fact in was not uncommon for a wedding to last a week. It was an

extremely joyful time full of happiness and feast after feast. And the best part was

as a guest you didn’t have to pay.

Now in the parable we don’t just have a wedding, we have a royal wedding. And

I don’t have to tell you, that if a typical wedding was a week you can imagine the

celebration that this King would be having to honor his Son the crown Prince.

Jesus wants those listening to him to be thinking of the biggest most festive event

that they can possibly imagine multiply it by 10 and then you start to understand

what is going on here. That is the picture.

Now we get to invitation #1.

22:3 and sent his servants to call those who were invited to the

wedding feast, but they would not come.

Notice something interesting here, I missed it when I first read it but it is very

important. The King sends his servants to call whom? Those who were already

invited. This is very telling. This is not a cold call invitation, in fact, the King has

already provided details of the wedding. He has already sent out the guest list and

notified everyone. All the servants do is go out a remind them the time has come

to attend this most festive occasion. It’s time for the celebration to begin.

Let’s stop here and define who the character’s in the parable represent. Obviously

the King is God the Father. And the Son, is none other than Jesus Christ. But who

are the guests? Who are the ones who have already been notified of the coming of

the Messiah, and in this present day are being invited to come to him. These guests

are the nation of Israel. God’s chosen people in the Old Testament were notified to

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be on alert because the Son would be coming. He is talking about the Pharisees

and Scribes standing in his midst as he tells this parable. The have been invited by

Moses, Elijah, Jeremiah, all the old Testament prophets. This verse is an exact

summary of the entire Old Testament.

“They would not come”. At this point, I want you to audibly hear the crowd

around Jesus gasp as he says these words. What do you mean they would not

come! How is this possible? They have been invited to the Royal Wedding

festivities and they refuse the King! Can you imagine!

Invitation #2

22:4 Again he sent other servants, saying, 'Tell those who are invited, "See,

I have prepared my dinner, my oxen and my fat calves have been

slaughtered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding feast."'

What a gracious benevolent King! After the rejection and utter disrespect that the

guests have brought upon his Son, he is patient and extends grace. The King

reminds them that there is nothing you have to do. He says I have done all the

work. The preparations are made everything is finalized, all you have to do is

answer the invitation. He bidst them ones more to come.

I was reminded as I read this of Jesus’ Cry just 2 days later as he would be hangin

on the cross, “It is finished.” The work to complete salvation is was done at that

moment. He calls us to him not to add anything to what he has done, but to

simply bask in the work that has been done for us.

This King is patient. You know God is patient with us too. Many times, just like

these Jews, we have ignored God’s call to come to him. But God is patient, and

God is good. So extends another invitation to them.

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And among these second wave of servants that were sent to them was none other

than, John the Baptist, Jesus himself, All of the apostles have been sent to invite

them again to come to the wedding party.

Look how they respond to this second invitation:

22:5 & 6 But they paid no attention and went off, one to his farm, another to his

business,

while the rest seized his servants, treated them shamefully, and killed

them.

I can imagine that those hearers of this parable by now are ready to rip their robes

at the direction this story is headed. We see here two groups that respond quite

differently. Group 1 responds with indifference. They simply do not care about

the Kingdom, about the King, or about the honored Son.

We see this same response today right. Have you ever shared the gospel or shared

something spiritual with non-believers and they look at you like you have 3 eyes.

They don’t understand, they don’t care to understand, and perhaps they think

you’re a crazy person. Such was this first group.

The first group is wrapped up in the everyday things of the world, maybe it’s the

work they have at the farm, or tending to their business. They are more concerned

about the things of this world and really don’t care about anything beyond that.

The reality is that this represents much of the modern world and certainly much

of the US. Bringing honor and glory to the Son is laughable to them in

comparison to the everyday pursuits of their lives. This is the response of the

secular world.

The second group is different. We see a dramatic statement in verse 6 that they

are so enraged by the repeated invitation that they result to murdering the servants

of the king. These are the religious crowds who are so enraged by the invitation

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that they ultimately would murder the very ones who were sent to bring them the

news. John was beheaded, Jesus was nailed to a cross, and the apostles martyred.

22:7 The king was angry, and he sent his troops and destroyed those

murderers and burned their city.

The King was kind a gracious, but his invitation has a limit. His patience has a

limit. And now he has had enough. This is a warning to us as well. For a time,

God invites us to come to him, but if we continue to harden our hearts and reject

his invitation we too will see his wrath.

Also verse 7 we get a prophecy from the Lord himself. Notice it also say that the

“burned their city”. We know that their city is Jerusalem, so what is Jesus talking

about here?

In AD70 the city of Jerusalem would be utterly destroyed. The temple would be

destroyed. And the Jewish people would even lose their ability to maintain the

sacrificial sytem without a temple. In the destruction of this city more that 1.1 M

jews were killed and the entire city was left in ruin. As a result the Jewish people

were scattered.

Now we look at the third invitation.

22:8 Then he said to his servants, 'The wedding feast is ready, but those

invited were not worthy.

Notice that the Son will be honored. The King is not wriging his hands in concern

that nobody will be there to honor the son. In fact, all of the wedding is about the

son. Not the bride! We must be careful that we understand this about salvation.

Salvation is not centrally about you. While we do get the benefit of eternal life, of

getting to be with the God in heaven, the real focus of salvation is about bringing

honor and glory to the Son. That is what is at the root of salvation! The King will

fill the wedding hall with worthy people in order to exhault the name of the Son.

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22:9 Go therefore to the main roads and invite to the wedding feast as

many as you find.'

The King instructs them to go out where, unto the main roads. Not the backroads

full of locals, but to the main intersections where tourists, travelers, gentiles

would be passing thru.

We here the echoes here of the great commission. Go ye therefor into all nations.

We are ordered to do the same thing as we share the gospel to all those we

encounter. And we invite them to come to this wonderful wedding.

22:10 And those servants went out into the roads and gathered all whom

they found, both bad and good. So the wedding hall was filled with

guests.

We notice that the servants do not discriminate when they make this third

invitation. Those who appear morally good or morally bad, they are all invited to

come to the wedding. I’m reminded of the parable of the soils where the sower

just went about slinging seed. He didn’t worry about where the seed landed he let

God sort all that out. Such is a picture of sharing the gospel. We shouldn’t think

oh man that guy looks like a bad dude, I’m not sharing the gospel with that

person.

22:11 "But when the king came in to look at the guests, he saw there a man

who had no wedding garment.

It’s almost like Jesus could have stopped the story at verse 10, but he provides for

us a very interesting plot twist at the end.

Remember these guests were just going about their everyday tasks on the road,

and they got invited to this wedding. So clearly the King made some kind of

provision for them to be appropriately dressed for the occasion. To show up to the

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vent with dirty, worn, or inappropriate clothing would surely bring dishonor to

the event and to the Son.

It’s also clear from the verse that everybody in the wedding hall has on the

garments, except for this one person.

There has been much discussion from theologians about what these wedding

garments are meant to represent. But most people agree the idea here is that the

garments represent righteousness.

[Isa 61:10 ESV] 10 I will greatly rejoice in the LORD; my soul shall exult in my

God, for he has clothed me with the garments of salvation; he has covered me

with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decks himself like a priest with a

beautiful headdress, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.

This concept goes all the way back to the garden of Eden, when Adam and Eve

first sinned. If you remember they tried to cover themselves but were not able to

make for themselves a suitable covering. So if you recall God killed an animal

and covered their nakedness with the skin. It was the very first picture of the one

who would come someday, and by his bloodshed would provide for us a covering

of righteousness.

Notice the King is gracious in asking why the man doesn’t have on the covering.

He gives the man an opportunity to answer for himself.

22:12 And he said to him, 'Friend, how did you get in here without a

wedding garment?' And he was speechless.

The man is speechless. He doesn’t have a reason. It must be that this man by his

own will determined that he would enter the wedding party and he would do so

under his own terms. This part of the parable is pointed directly at the church.

There are echos of when Jesus said, many in that day will say to me Lord, Lord…

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and I will say depart I never knew you. Jesus warns us that there is but one way

into the wedding celebration and that is to be covered by his righteousness.

To bring our own so-called righteousness to the party is tragic mistake. The best

we have to offer is not acceptable.

[Isa 64:6 ESV] 6 We have all become like one who is unclean, and all our

righteous deeds are like a polluted garment. We all fade like a leaf, and our

iniquities, like the wind, take us away.

22:13 Then the king said to the attendants, 'Bind him hand and foot and cast

him into the outer darkness. In that place there will be weeping and

gnashing of teeth.'

There is a limit to God’s patience. The time will come when he will invite us no

more, when the time to accept the wedding garment is no longer an option.

To keep the man from resisting he is bound, he is immediately removed from the

presence of the King, and he is not allowed re-entry under any circumstances. It is

important that even those of us who find ourselves among the guests in the

wedding party that we take a look at our garments. Who’s garments are you

wearing? Are we trying to attend the wedding party on our own terms or on

God’s terms.

I love this last verse. Jesus tags it on there, and it is simply mind boggling.

22:14 For many are called, but few are chosen."

This entire parable has been about the choices of men. Choices about if they

would attend, if they would not attend. If they would dress appropriately or if

they would defy the King. Man’s will is central to the parable. And just as Jesus

has us fully understanding that, he drops in this verse. “Many are called, but few

are chosen.”

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Jesus reminds us that in all of these things God is still sovereign. It is one of the

great mysteries of Scripture. John 6:44, no one can come to me unless the Father

draws him in. God is sovereign, and if we find ourselves clothed in righteousness

in the midst of the Son, it only because his grace has been extended to open our

eyes, remove our hearts of stone, and give us a new spiritual birth. And he is

calling all today to come to Him. Let’s Pray.

Lord’s Supper:

Invite musicians and server’s to go ahead and come.

Explain, this is the response part of the service. The covering or wedding garment

that Jesus provided, was not free. His blood was spilled, his body was broken. So

today as we partake in the Lord’s supper we remember that.

You don’t have to be a member here to participate, but you do have to be a

believer in good standing with the Lord. Meaning you have no unconfessed sin or

broken fellowship with others in the congregation.

Perhaps you want to come up here and pray, or pray where you are, that’s all

okay. I’ll be standing right over here if you want to come pray with me.

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Where Does Jesus Christ's Authority Come From? | Matthew 21:23-46

Series: All!

Jesus has all authority,

So that all nations

Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “Where does Jesus Christ’s Authority come from?”

Scripture: Matthew 21:23-46

Bottom line: Jesus gets ALL authority from God the Father who makes him Lord of all. Therefore, the only appropriate response is to gladly submit to him in ALL things—especially in the building of His Kingdom.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

SERMON OUTLINE & NOTES

MAIN REFERENCES USED

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study. Reflect and Discuss:

1. Define submission in your own words.

2. What current ideas or popular philosophies in our culture reject the idea of submission?

3. How would you counsel someone who rejected God's authority because of bad experiences with authority figures?

4. How does the fear of man result in rejecting Christ's authority? Describe how you've seen this play out in someone's life.

5. How might Matthew 21:28-32 be an indictment on nominal Christians, that is, those who profess Christ but do not truly know Him?

6. How would you summarize the warning in the parable of the Wedding Feast in Matthew 22:1-14?

7. What were the underlying motives of those who questioned Jesus in Matthew 22:16-40?

8. What is at the root of all rejection of Jesus? (Hint: Read John 3:19-21.)

9. Explain why Jesus' question in Matthew 22:41-16 would have been perplexing to these Jewish leaders.

10. How would you respond to someone who said they rejected the authority of God's Word but they loved Jesus?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

What is God saying to you right now?

What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

OUTLINE & NOTES

Introduction

Jesus is living out his last 8 days in front of us as we head to the end of the book of Matthew.

Keep in mind that Jesus is now letting it become known that he’s the Messiah and King of Israel. He’s no longer trying to keep this a secret.

Jesus gets questioned by the chief Jewish priests and the elders of the people where he gets his authority. This isn’t an unreasonable question, actually. After all, Jesus has

Entered Jerusalem as the coming Messiah King of Israel and did not refuse the messianic praises he received.

Entered the temple and cleared (cursed?) it.

Entered the temple and taught in it.

So to question where he gets his authority is a reasonable even responsible question for them to ask. After all, they are responsible for what happens in the temple courts.

And it’s good to remember that all authority comes from someone unless that someone is God himself. Jesus will say his authority comes from God the Father.

And he’ll then show them the implications of his authority. To not acknowledge it and gladly submit to it in life is to go the way of these ungodly religious leaders. That is to be rejected by God.

Story/Illustration: Lighthouse v Battleship

The captain of the ship looked into the dark night and saw faint lights in the distance. Immediately he told his signalman to send a message” “Alter your course 10 degrees south.”

Promptly a return message was received: “Alter your course 10 degrees north.”

The captain was angered; his command had been ignored. So he sent a second message: “Alter your course 10 degrees south—I am the captain!”

Soon another message was received: Alter your course 10 degrees north—I am seaman third class Jones.”

Immediately the captain sent a third message, knowing the fear it would evoke: “Alter your course 10 degrees south—I am a battleship.”

Then the reply came “Alter your course 10 degrees north—I am a lighthouse.”

In the midst of our dark and foggy times, all sorts of voices are shouting orders into the night, telling us what to do, how to adjust our lives. Out of the darkness, one voice signals something quite opposite to the rest—something almost absurd.

But the voice happens to be the Light of the World, and we ignore it at our peril. —Paul Aiello, Jr. 

Bottom line: Jesus gets ALL authority from God the Father who makes him Lord of all. Therefore, the only appropriate response is to gladly submit to him in ALL things—especially in the building of His Kingdom.

Outline

I. Jesus’ Authority Questioned: Matthew 21:23-27

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. Jesus’ authority comes from his Father.

Q. Why do I want you to know?

A. Because there is no other authority worthy to be submitted to, ultimately.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Recognize Jesus’ authority from the Father and gladly submit to him.

Q. Why do I want you to do this?

A. So that you will reap the blessings and miss the wrath.

How? Pray with repentant faith now, early and often.

II. Parable of the 2 Sons

21:28-32

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. Israel’s leaders (and many Jews) did not repent and believe thus rejecting Jesus as Messiah.

Q. Why do I want you to know this?

A. Because there are grave consequences for not submitting to his authority.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Trust, obey and follow Jesus like the sinners did—though they said no to his words, ways and works initially, they eventually repented and believed.

How? Pray for God to open your eyes, trust, and follow him today.

III. Parable of the Tenants

21:33-46

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. Israel rejected God the Father (prophets), God the son (Jesus), and God the Holy Spirit (at Stephen’s stoning).

God is a stone/rock in scripture.

To Israel, a stumbling block.

To Church, a cornerstone and foundation.

To Gentile kingdoms at end of age, smiting stone.

Q. Why?

A. So that we don’t make the same mistake.

Q. What do I want them to do?

A. Build your life on the rock that doesn’t roll or be crushed by him. Because the consequences are great!

How? Pray, repent and believe that King Jesus deserves all your allegiance.

Conclusion

“You are more sinful and flawed than you ever dared believe. But more accepted and loved than you ever dared hope.” -Tim Keller

A missionary to Africa told someone, “When we want to share the gospel in a village in Africa, we don't send them books. We send them a Christian family.”

Why is it better to send the family than some books? It’s certainly cheaper. Seems more efficient. But this experienced missionary understood that the Christian life lived like Jesus would demonstrate what glad submission to God would look like. The gospel wouldn’t just be taught but caught.

Bottom line: Jesus gets ALL authority from God the Father who makes him Lord of all. Therefore, the only appropriate response is to gladly submit to him in ALL things—especially in the building of His Kingdom.

One true story that illustrates the authority of God involves a man named Louis Zamperini, who was a former Olympic runner and a prisoner of war during World War II. After his plane crashed into the ocean, Zamperini survived for over 47 days on a raft in shark-infested waters before being captured by the Japanese and taken to a prison camp.

Despite facing torture, starvation, and daily beatings, Zamperini never lost his faith in God and continued to pray for strength and guidance. He even forgave his captors and used his influence to help his fellow prisoners. Eventually, Zamperini was released from the prison camp and went on to live a long and fulfilling life, crediting his survival and resilience to the authority of God.

This true story shows how the authority of God can help people to endure and overcome unimaginable challenges. Even in the darkest of times, God's authority can provide people with the hope, courage, and strength they need to persevere and thrive. The true story of Louis Zamperini is a testament to the power of faith in the face of adversity.

The Umbrella of Authority

Each of us has a decision to make . Will we gladly step under the umbrella of God’s good authority? Or will we step out from under it and be pelted by the world and evil as we resist God’s commands? Grace and mercy are provided while we humbly remain underneath. God’s justice is poured out on those who step out from under it. Where are you standing right now?

Will you come underneath and obey God’s commands to build his kingdom?

God has shown us how to gladly submit to him all our days. Will you?

Let’s pray

NOTES

DSO notes, 21:23-37

“So Jesus turns the tables on them again, saying in essence, ‘If you’re not capable enough to judge John the Baptist as Heaven-sent, then you are certainly not capable to judge me.’” P. 613

“You see, what John said about Jesus was the answer the their question. (That’s what Jesus is getting at here.) And what did John say?” P. 614

So there’s the answer to their question (through J the B) and 3 parables illustrating this answer using 2 themes: faith and judgment. P. 614-615

“With great authority Jesus teaches these authorities about his authority.” P. 615

2 Lessons here:

“The gates to God’s kingdom open wide to the bluntly ungodly if they repent, but not a crack for the precisely orthodox if they do not.”

“Show me your faith.” “To Jesus, one is not saved by talk alone…but by faith alone (“believe” 3x), a faith that is never alone (a faith that obeys the word/will/voice of God)—To Jesus, verbal faith is not saving faith; a doing faith is saving faith.” P. 616

21:33-41

Second parable—“Jesus gives a condensed symbolic (or allegorical) version of salvation history.” P. 617

2 Lessons:

“God is patient; God is just.”

“God will judge those who don’t accept his Son.”

“God is patient; God is just. Don’t try his patience; trust his Son.” P. 619

So, “by what authority?”

Everyone of us should ask this question.

Here’s the answer: “By God’s authority. I am the Son he sent.”

Here’s the answer: “God did. I am the stone he set in place. By God’s authority I am the Son, and I am the Stone.” P. 620

MAIN REFERENCES USED

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

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Why Did Jesus Come to Earth? | Matthew 20:20-34

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “Why did Jesus come to earth?

Scripture: Matthew 20:20-34

Heavily indebted to Douglas Sean O’Donnell’s & David Platt’s commentaries for this message. (See below)

Bottom line: The way of greatness is the narrow way as seen in the humble example and sacrificial substitution of Jesus Christ on the cross.

““Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.”

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭13‬-‭14‬ ‭NIV‬‬ https://bible.com/bible/111/mat.7.14.NIV

The cross of Christ is great because

  1. It shows that humble servanthood and sacrificial suffering are exalted actions, (Example) and

  2. It gave eternal life to many as he died in their place. (Substitution)

“The first reason can be shortened to Jesus’ death as example, the second reason to Jesus’ death as substitution.” -O’Donnell

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. SERMON OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. MAIN REFERENCES USED

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study. Reflect and Discuss:

1. How does the misguided approach of the disciples beginning in Matthew 20:20 parallel your own approach to God and the Christian life?

2. How does Jesus' healing of the blind men in Matthew 20:29-34 contrast with the request for privilege by James and John in the previous paragraph?

3. Why can't grace and pride coexist? Can you think of other Scriptural passages that speak to this truth?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Weekly questions I answer in preparation for the sermon:

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. Why Jesus came to earth. That he came not to be served but to serve and give his life as a ransom. And he came to show us how to live after our rescue. He came to show us how to live and to empower us to live that way.

Q. Why?

A. To remind us why we follow Jesus in this way. His example and sacrificial act should inspire us through gratitude.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Live like he lived serving others sacrificially. (SOS)

Q. Why?

A. Because his example and his substitution are worthy of our entire lives. This is why we were saved in the first place.

OUTLINE & NOTES

Introduction

How to Avoid the Titanic Mistake (by Rick Warren via Nicky Gumbel)

James Cameron, director of the movie *Titanic,* describes the Titanic as a ‘metaphor’ of life: ‘We are all living on… \[the\] Titanic.’

When the Titanic set sail in 1912, it was declared to be ‘unsinkable’ because it was constructed using a new technology. The ship’s hull was divided into sixteen watertight compartments. Up to four of these compartments could be damaged or even flooded, and still the ship would float.

Tragically, the Titanic sank on 15 April 1912 at 2.20 am. 1,513 people lost their lives.  (111 years ago almost to the day)

At the time, it was thought that five of its watertight compartments had been ruptured in a collision with an iceberg. However, on 1 September 1985, when the wreck of the Titanic was found lying upright on the ocean floor, there was no sign of the long gash previously thought to have been ripped in the ship’s hull. What they discovered was that damage to one compartment affected all the rest.

Many people make the Titanic mistake. They think they can divide their lives into different ‘compartments’ and that what they do in one will not affect the rest. However, as Rick Warren (from whom I have taken this illustration) says, ‘*A life of integrity is one that is not divided into compartments.’* David prayed for ‘*an undivided heart*’ (Psalm 86:11). He led the people with ‘*integrity of heart*’ (78:72). Supremely, Jesus was a ‘*man of integrity*’ (Matthew 22:16; Mark 12:14).

I would add that what makes this sinking so tragic is the hubris behind the idea that because of technological cleverness, they could move full steam ahead without concern for anything bad happening. But they were vulnerable because of this.

So are we.

Bottom line: The way of greatness is the narrow way as seen in the humble example and sacrificial substitution of Jesus Christ on the cross.

Why did Jesus come? “To serve and give his life as a ransom for many.” (20:28)

He came to show us how to live and to empower us to live that way.

Because…5 reasons:

  1. He came to suffer. The “cup” was descriptive of Jesus “drinking down the wrath of God in the place of sinners.” (Platt, p. 271)

  2. He came to save. “Ransom is a word that can refer to a payment made to release someone from slavery.” As in slavery to pay off a debt.

  3. He came to be our substitute. “For” can also be translated “in place of.” Read the verse again substituting these words (no pun intended). He died for you but he also died instead of you.

  4. He came to show us how to live.

    1. A different kind of leadership.

    2. To selflessly live for the good of others instead of yourself.

    3. Love people by serving people.

    4. SOS = Serving Others Sacrificially

      1. James was beheaded and John was exiled to the island of Patmos.

      2. This kind of sacrificial service is what defines kingdom greatness.

  5. He came to serve us.

    1. He came to be our lowly servant by becoming a man and providing salvation for us.

    2. The one who deserves to be served came to serve, and this service was ultimately demonstrated on the cross.

    3. Cf. Phil 2:3-8 Furthermore, He said He came “to give His life a ransom for many.” Some scholars say Jesus paid a ransom to the devil to set us free, but that is not the biblical picture. It is true that ransoms were paid in military tribunals in antiquity to secure the release of those who were held captive by the enemy. More frequently, however, ransoms were paid to secure the freedom of those who could not pay their debts and were facing indentured servitude. Jesus paid a ransom to purchase His beloved people out of their bondage to sin. Is it any wonder that the Apostle Paul says, “You were bought at a price” (1 Cor. 6:20)

    4. Jesus is our servant.

      1. But this doesn’t mean I tell Jesus what to do.

      2. It does mean Jesus gives us what we need.

    5. We are Jesus’ servants.

      1. But this doesn’t mean that Jesus needs our aid.

      2. This does mean that we submit to Jesus’ authority.

Two Blind Men

Applications:

  1. Boldly confess your need for his mercy.

  2. Humbly believe in his power to do the miraculous.

Conclusion

A missionary to Africa told someone, “When we want to share the gospel in a village in Africa, we don't send them books. We send them a Christian family.”

Why is it better to send the family than some books? It’s certainly cheaper. Seems more efficient. But this experienced missionary understood that the Christian life lived like Jesus would demonstrate the love of God through serving others sacrificially. Therefore, the gospel wouldn’t just be taught but caught.

It’s not about putting God or our church experience into a compartment and then living the rest of our lives without a care for what Jesus did for us. We recognize that we are vulnerable if even one compartment gets hit. We need God to cover everything in our lives. We must live with him at the center of our lives as we trust and follow him completely.

What about your neighbors? Co-workers? Classmates? Teammates? Coffee dates?

Bottom line: The way of greatness is the narrow way as seen in the humble example and sacrificial substitution of Jesus Christ on the cross.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Live like he lived serving others sacrificially. (SOS)

Q. Why?

A. Because his example and his substitution are worthy of our entire lives. This is why we were saved in the first place.

Notes

LGLP = SGSP

Compassion motivated by love

SOS = Serve Others Sacrificially

Search and Rescue Operation at great personal risk

Matthew 20:17-28

Mrs. Zebedee (Salome?) asks Jesus to elevate her 2 sons to second highest in his kingdom. She obviously thinks they deserve it and she wants the honor for them and for herself. Some think that Salome is Mary’s sister (Jesus’ mother Mary) so they’d be related. This seems inappropriate to ask. Perhaps she feels so safe with Jesus (they were among the earliest followers) that she boldly asks the desire of her heart. And is it really a bad thing for a parent to want to see their sons in such a prominent, honorable position empowered to serve under Jesus’ reign?

Jesus clearly sees the inappropriateness of her question. For he makes decisions by the leading of the Holy Spirit. she may not yet realize that.

Jesus gives 2 responses:

  1. “You don’t know what you are asking.” Because she—and they—don’t yet see that his kingdom is not of this world. That his kingdom is not run like other king domes. Her ignorance is not her fault.

  2. “Can you drink the cup I am going to drink?” This question seems to be directed towards her sons (you is plural) for they answer Jesus. The “cup” refers to God’s holy wrath for the sins of the world. This will happen at the cross. It refers to suffering for his kingdom cause/mission. Now they may know what he’s referring to. After all, he just shared that in vv. 17-19 (and that for the 3rd time)

Well, whether they do or not, they answer that they can drink from that cup. It’s hard to believe that they comprehend what that could be like. In our zeal, we all tend to be overly optimistic about what we can and will do. Certainly they are willing. “The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.”

Jealous replies that they will indeed drink from the same cup but ot so they can get what they want. That’s for the Father to decide.

Of course, the other 10 are infuriated about this because either

  1. It’s inappropriate for them to ask,

  2. It means they think they’re more worthy and that Jesus might choose them. Hence, jealousy, or

  3. It means they asked first and the rest missed their chance.

Jesus moves now to teach them a kingdom principle: unlike the rulers of the kingdom of this world, if you want to be great or first in God’s kingdom, you must serve others sacrificially. (SOS)

Jesus is the ultimate SOS example. He served by literally exchanging his life for ours at the cross. Great love!

O’Donnell says that Mrs. Zebedee’s question is cowardly, commendable and condemnable.

  1. Cowardly in that the guys seem to have put their mother up to it. (Maybe not, but they didn’t stop her either; this is bold for a woman (unless she’s Jesus’ auntie))

  2. Commendable in that they believed Jesus’ kingdom was inevitable.

  3. Condemnable in that they were asking for glory when Jesus just said he was going to pathway of shame via the cross. Who are they to think their path would be any better? “Jesus will be lifted up on a tree, and these boys want to be lifted up to thrones number two and three.”

I would like to add some thoughts here on American Christianity and our collective desire to be in power politically.

Our desires to affect change in our culture is not bad in and of itself. But the way we tend to want to go about it is the same as the “Gentiles” and Romans did. (And everyone else) We want to operate from a position of power. But Jesus calls us to change our ambition from being served and first to being he servant and slave and last. Who’s doing this today? Very few.

What I’m trying to say is that I wonder if we’re not operating more like Mrs. Zebedee, James and John than we are like Jesus.

Matthew 20:29-34

Two blind men are out panning for alms as they likely did every day. They hear a large crowd coming. They’re excited because they’ve already heard that Jesus of Nazareth is coming through. They believe he will heal them.

So when he comes through, they cry out for mercy. They call him:

Lord = master, sir at the very least; but, in context, probably even Messiah

Son of David = Not only a king in David’s dynasty but the prophesied king of kings (divine)

Have mercy on us. They are indeed in need of mercy. They can’t see and so are dependent on others for most needs. Those they depend on already have a hard life.l

Jesus stops after they cry out again (despite the crowd’s reaction) and asks them what they want him to do for them. They reply they want what they obviously need—to see.

Jesus, motivated by compassion, gives them what they ask for but way more than they asked for. He gave them the ability to see

  1. In this world

  2. Into the next world. This was the greater blessing.

So Jesus models SOS adding a key ingredient to the recipe of LP: Compassion. That is our motive—the mercy and love of God for those in need around us.

Notes from Douglas Sean O’Donnell

Nothing funny about prideful ambition.

O’Donnell says that Mrs. Zebedee’s question is cowardly, commendable and condemnable.

  1. Cowardly in that the guys seem to have put their mother up to it. (Maybe not, but they didn’t stop her either; this is bold for a woman (unless she’s Jesus’ auntie))

  2. Commendable in that they believed Jesus’ kingdom was inevitable.

  3. Condemnable in that they were asking for glory when Jesus just said he was going to pathway of shame via the cross. Who are they to think their path would be any better? “Jesus will be lifted up on a tree, and these boys want to be lifted up to thrones number two and three.”

2 lessons:

  1. “We should recognize that true faith and real error can be mixed in the heart of the Brest Christian’s…Thus we ought to persistently pray for purity, and we ought to gently seek to purify one another.”

  2. “Do we believe Jesus will reign? Do we give a passing thought to the eternal kingdom? Do we hope to get a good spot in it?

Jesus won’t condemn the 12 but he will correct them.

He’s given us his last-first theology (his view of kingdom greatness) twice in these last 2 sections in Matthew.

He follows with telling them why the cross is so great:

  1. “The cross of Christ is so great because it shows that humble servant hood and sacrificial suffering are exalted actions.

  2. “The cross of Christ is so great because the two-day death of one man gave eternal life to many.”l

Jesus’ Death as an Example

“Jesus’ corrective her is straightforward:

A. Gentile or pagan rulers rule this way because they view greatness this way;

B. You are to rule another way because you view greatness in the opposite way; and

C. That way is the way of the cross. And the way of the cross is humble servanthood.”

“Whoever would be great among you

Must be your servant.

Whoever would be first

Must be your slave.” Vv. 26-27

Synonymous focus:

“I’ll put it this way. Do you want to be ‘great’? Then you need to be a ‘servant’ (diakonos)—that is, wait tables, serve others. Do you want to not just be ‘great’ but to be ‘first’ I(the first among the greats)? Then you need to be a ‘slave’ (doulos)—that is, someone ‘who has no right or existence on his own, how lives solely for others.” P. 571

“Our culture ‘ceaselessly’ directs us up, up, up; we must ‘pray almost daily for the wisdom and courage’ to go down, down, down.” “He descended into greatness.” Cf. Phil 2:5-11

Jesus’ Death as a Substitution

“The cross of Christ is so great because the three-day (Good Friday, Holy Saturday) death of one man gave eternal ire to many. The first reason can be shortened to Jesus’ death as example, the second reason to Jesus’ death as substitution.

3 Key words: (2 from v. 28)

  1. “For” — or “in the place of”; The preposition means substitution

  2. “Cup” — 1) “the hostilities that arise from faithful gospel proclamation and living?, 2) “God’s wrathful judgment upon wickedness.”

  3. “Ransom” — The price paid to release slaves. “It could also refer to money pain int he place of capital punishment.”

MAIN REFERENCES USED

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

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How Will You Respond? | Matthew 20: 17-19

How Will You Respond?

Matthew 20:17-19

Matthew 16: Christ first prediction of his death followed by Peter’s shocked response.

Christ second prediction of his death in Matthew 17 followed by the disciples being greatly distressed. (Not focusing on Jesus stating he would rise again).

Christ third prediction of his death Matthew 20:17-19 followed by the disciples seeking position and power. It was like they had become numb to Jesus’ message.

Shocked to distressed to glory seeking. May we not tire or miss the Gospel in our lives as we reflect upon the cross and the resurrection.

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How is God Just and Generous in Salvation? | Matthew 20:1-16

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “How is God just and generous in salvation?”

Scripture: Matthew 20:1-16

Heavily indebted to Douglas Sean O’Donnell’s commentary for this message. (See below)

Bottom line: God’s gift of salvation is both just and generous:

It’s just, so we don’t grumble about God’s mercy to anyone;

It’s equally gracious, so we don’t begrudge his unequal generosity.

Main point: God’s gift of salvation is just and generous.

A. God’s gift of salvation is just, so don’t grumble (complain) about God’s undeserved grace (or mercy).

B. God’s gift of salvation is equally gracious (to all), so don’t begrudge (look upon with disapproval) w/God’s unequal generosity. (Envious or jealous)

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. SERMON OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. MAIN REFERENCES USED

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. What does the parable of the workers in a vinevard teach us about

God's grace?

2. How does the misguided approach of the disciples beginning in Matthew 20:20 parallel your own approach to God and the Christian life?

3. How does Jesus' healing of the blind men in Matthew 20:29-34 contrast with the request for privilege by James and John in the previous paragraph?

4. Why can't grace and pride coexist? Can you think of other Scriptural passages that speak to this truth?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Weekly questions I answer in preparation for the sermon:

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. That God is just and generous in saving people.

Q. Why?

A. Because we tend to live as if we deserve it. And there’s very little gratitude in that perspective. In fact, we do not deserve it.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Evaluate your relationship with God. Do you believe you deserve salvation? (You don’t) Do you believe you can earn your salvation? (You cannot)

Q. Why?

A. Because salvation is a gift to the damned. None of us deserve it. All of us need it.

OUTLINE & NOTES

Introduction

Jeffrey Lionel Dahmer (/ˈdɑːmər/; May 21, 1960 – November 28, 1994), also known as the Milwaukee Cannibal or the Milwaukee Monster, was an American serial killerand sex offender who killed and dismembered seventeen men and boys between 1978 and 1991.[4] Many of his later murders involved necrophilia,[5] cannibalism, and the permanent preservation of body parts—typically all or part of the skeleton.[6]

Although he was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder,[7] schizotypal personality disorder,[8] and a psychotic disorder, Dahmer was found to be legally saneat his trial. He was convicted of fifteen of the sixteen homicides he had committed in Wisconsin and was sentenced to fifteen terms of life imprisonment on February 17, 1992.[9] Dahmer was later sentenced to a sixteenth term of life imprisonment for an additional homicide committed in Ohio in 1978.

On November 28, 1994, Dahmer was beaten to death by Christopher Scarver, a fellow inmate at the Columbia Correctional Institution in Portage, Wisconsin.

Jeffrey Dawlmer coming to Christ. Stone Phillips interviewed Dawlmer where he learned that Dawlmer, his father and his pastor all testify that Jeffrey believes we all will stand before Christ and answer to him. He trusted Jesus as Lord and savior according to all 3.

  • Dateline NBC has also broadcast an interview with Dahmer. Conducted by Stone Phillips and first broadcast on March 8, 1994, this 90-minute episode—titled Confessions of a Serial Killer—features interviews with Dahmer and his father conducted at Columbia Correctional Institution. Dahmer's mother is also interviewed for this program.[363]

Context:

“The time had come for the owner of a vineyard to harvest his grapes. The permanent workers on his farm were not numerous enough to complete the harvest in time, so when harvest time came, as many farmers did in the ancient world and still do today, he went looking for day laborers he could hire. Such laborers customarily came to the marketplace in the hope that they would be chosen to labor that day and would gain the standard pay for a day’s work in Israel, which was one denarius”

Excerpt From

Matthew - An Expositional Commentary

R.C. Sproul

https://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewBook?id=0

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God’s gift of salvation (eternal life; kingdom of God; kingdom of heaven) is generous in just, gracious, and merciful.

The landowner was

Just—he paid them all what he agreed to pay them which was fair market value (one day laborers wages). And they all agreed to this up front. They all were paid the same amount. They were probably happy at the beginning of the day because someone hired them enabling them to gain a wage that day. While their circumstances did not change during the day, their expectations did.

Perceived as unjust—the workers who were first hired perceived this generosity to be unfair because the last were paid for a full day when they worked < a full day. As a result, they grumbled/complained to the landowner.

Grace—While some worked all day (earning their fair share of the wages), the rest worked less than a day and yet were generously paid more than they deserved.

Mercy—Some did not get what they deserved (in their minds) which was more than what the latter workers received. Yet, none of them deserved the work. They were mercifully given the opportunity to work when they had no way to create payable work on their own. They were literally at the mercy of a landowner hiring them that day.

8A little bit more…

Also, keep in mind that this was a time of harvest requiring extra workers. Therefore, in addition to his normal crew, he was bringing other day laborers who needed any kind of work they could get. Therefore, it’s safe to assume that they were harvesting grapes—not just tending to the fields.

This matters because it reminds us that this imagery is about more than grace, mercy and justice. It’s about the harvest. God doesn’t just graciously save people to save them. He saves them to serve…in the harvest. This is part of what is referred to as the “Lordship debate”. Does Jesus save, end of sentence. Or does Jesus save that we might join him in saving others? I believe it’s both—and. I believe that we demonstrate that our faith is genuine and our salvation real when we join him in the harvest. Otherwise, I think it’s safe to say there’s evidence to the contrary.

When someone saves your life, you feel like you could do anything for them.

When you are forgiven a great debt, you live your life grateful for what you don’t deserve—more life.

When Jesus saves you from sin and death, shame and guilt, hell itself, and you understand this, you find yourself eager to serve God and serve people to this end.

Do you?

“In the parable, a large group of the workers received grace. One group received justice. However, no one received injustice. But the workers who labored all day thought they received injustice. They thought the owner owed them something”

Excerpt From

Matthew - An Expositional Commentary

R.C. Sproul

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“If we were to try to list everything God owes us, it would be the easiest task we were ever assigned, one we could complete in record time. The truth is, He owes us nothing except His wrath as punishment for all our sins”

Excerpt From

Matthew - An Expositional Commentary

R.C. Sproul

https://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewBook?id=0

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Yet, we owe God an infinite debt—our sins are debts against a holy God. Like the servant who owed the king a gazillion dollars, we owe God way more than we could ever pay back.

Excerpt  from David Platt:

Main point: God’s gift of salvation is just and generous.

A. God’s gift of salvation is just, so don’t grumble (complain) about God’s undeserved grace (or mercy).

B. God’s gift of salvation is equally gracious (to all), so don’t begrudge (look upon with w/God’s unequal generosity. (Envious or jealous)

Symbolism:

Landowner/Master = God the Father; the Lord God

Workers = Christians; some more and some less in the eyes of the world (and the church)

Harvest = Work of the gospel in the world

Matthew 9:37-38 says, “Then he said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.””

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭9‬:‭37‬-‭38‬ ‭NIV‬‬ https://bible.com/bible/111/mat.9.37-38.NIV

JUSTICE - getting what you deserve

GRACE - getting what you DON’T deserve

MERCY - NOT getting what you deserve

“Whenever Jesus teaches on grace…he teaches lordship salvation.” -O’Donnell

“The traditional Protestant position is that salvation is

  1. by grace alone in Christ alone

  2. through faith alone,

  3. but such faith is never alone—it produces fruit.

    1. Faith loves.

    2. Faith works.

    3. Faith obeys. If such fruit is not found, then the assurance of salvation cannot (should not) be offered. Jesus must be both Savior AND Lord.” -O‘Donnell

A last point:

2 rules to the grace game:

  1. Grace and works. Jesus calls us laborers and workers in his kingdom harvest work. Everyone of them in this parable works in the vineyard, presumably for the harvest. The master goes and puts the idlers to work because grace by faith WORKS!

  2. Grace and rewards. These workers were GIVEN a job to work. Jesus rewards every worker who works (gives evidence he’s a worker (Christian)). And they’re doing a specific work too. They are working in the kingdom harvest. Are we?

Conclusion

Bottom line: 

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Stop grumbling and begrudging God and people who are just and generous.

Q. Why?

A. Because he tells us to. Because you know that God is just and generous and that’s enough.

Notes

“20:1-16 Different hours, same wages?

Christ told a parable about a landowner who paid the same wages to all his workers even though they had done vastly different amounts of work. God has the sovereign right to reward us for our work as he sees fit.

Anything he gives us, whether small or great, is a gift of grace and is more than we deserve.” -Wilmington’s Bible Handbook

MAIN REFERENCES USED

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

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What Good Thing Must I Do to Get Eternal Life? | Matthew 19:13-30

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “What good thing must I do to get eternal life?”

Scripture: Matthew 19:13-30

Heavily indebted to Douglas Sean O’Donnell’s commentary for this message. (See below)

Bottom line: 

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. SERMON OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. MAIN REFERENCES USED

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. List some ways that our culture's view of marriage is unbiblical (think TV, radio, advertising, etc.).

2. Why is it crucial to begin our discussion on marriage with God's design in Genesis? Discuss the idea that divorce is fundamentally an offense against God.

3. What wrong messages about Christ and His redemption are communicated to the world when Christians don't obey God's Word concerning marriage and divorce?

4. How can churches show both tenderness and courage in confronting the issue of divorce?

5. Why was the Pharisees' questioning misguided and wrongly

motivated?

6. If a friend asked, "When is it OK to get a divorce?" how would you answer?

7. Why is it so crucial for Christians to take the approach that we ought to be looking for every opportunity to reconcile?

8. What are practical steps to strengthen an existing marriage?

9. What does it mean practically for a single person to maximize his singleness?

10. What counsel would you give to someone who had been divorced and who thought their usefulness in God's kingdom had ended?

How would you counsel someone who had abandoned a spouse?

11. How might a wrong view of marriage and divorce be a precursor to other issues in society such as homosexuality, abortion, etc.?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Weekly questions I answer in preparation for the sermon:

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. God gives grace for eternal life for those who humble themselves like a child and trust Jesus. This is a total work of God.

Q. Why?

A. Because in God’s economy, king Jesus and his kingdom are most valuable. (Treasure hidden in a field; “Seek first…”)

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Gladly forsake all and follow him. F.A.I.T.H. = Forsaking All I Trust Him

Q. Why?

A. Because he’s more than worth it! 100X + Eternal life?!

OUTLINE & NOTES

Introduction

A Loving, Ongoing Relationship

In one of his last songs, Freddie Mercury, the lead singer of the rock group Queen, asked the question: ‘Does anybody know what we are living for?’ In spite of the fact that he had amassed *a huge fortune* and had attracted *thousands of fans*, Freddie Mercury admitted in an interview shortly before his death in 1991 that he was *desperately lonely*. He said, ‘You can have everything in the world and still be the loneliest man, and that is the most bitter type of loneliness. Success has brought me *world idolisation* and *millions of pounds*, but it’s prevented me from having the one thing we all need – *a loving, ongoing relationship*.’

F.A.I.T.H. = Forsaking All I Trust Him

Bottom line: Jesus calls us to forsake all and trust him: King & Kingdom First.

Pharisees ask 2 questions:

I. Humble yourself. (19:13-15)

A. Principle: God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.

B.

II. Seek complete wholeness. (19:16-22)

A. Ask the right question.

B. Go to the best source for your answer.

C. Respond with humble faith

D. Do the math. Recognize how much more Jesus is worth than what you’ll ever have.

E. Be perfect = be complete, whole

III. It’s impossible to see apart from God. (19:23-30)

A. See it starts with God. Total work of God.

B. See your part in it. We have a responsibility to respond by grace through faith.

C. See Jesus clearly. But for that to happen we must see Jesus as he really is. (Supernatural grace)

D. See his value and make the obvious choice.

IV. Finish first: Forsake All and Trust Jesus Christ for eternal abundant life in his kingdom.

Conclusion

Bottom line: Jesus calls us to forsake all and trust him: King & Kingdom First.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Finish First. Gladly forsake all and follow him. F.A.I.T.H. = Forsaking All I Trust Him

Q. Why?

A. Claim your prize. Because he’s more than worth it! 100X + Eternal life?!

MAIN REFERENCES USED

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

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What Does Jesus Say About Marriage, Divorce, & Singleness? | Matthew 19:1-12

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “What does Jesus say about Marriage, Divorce & Singleness?” (Darien Gabriel)

Scripture: Matthew 19:1-12 NIV cf. Deut. 24:1-4 NIV

Heavily indebted to Douglas Sean O’Donnell’s commentary for this message. (See below)

Bottom line: Jesus calls us to submit our already high view of marriage and singleness to our highest aim or devotion: Kingdom First.

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. SERMON OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. MAIN REFERENCES USED

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. List some ways that our culture's view of marriage is unbiblical (think TV, radio, advertising, etc.).

2. Why is it crucial to begin our discussion on marriage with God's design in Genesis? Discuss the idea that divorce is fundamentally an offense against God.

3. What wrong messages about Christ and His redemption are communicated to the world when Christians don't obey God's Word concerning marriage and divorce?

4. How can churches show both tenderness and courage in confronting the issue of divorce?

5. Why was the Pharisees' questioning misguided and wrongly

motivated?

6. If a friend asked, "When is it OK to get a divorce?" how would you answer?

7. Why is it so crucial for Christians to take the approach that we ought to be looking for every opportunity to reconcile?

8. What are practical steps to strengthen an existing marriage?

9. What does it mean practically for a single person to maximize his singleness?

10. What counsel would you give to someone who had been divorced and who thought their usefulness in God's kingdom had ended?

How would you counsel someone who had abandoned a spouse?

11. How might a wrong view of marriage and divorce be a precursor to other issues in society such as homosexuality, abortion, etc.?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Weekly questions I answer in preparation for the sermon:

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. That marriage, divorce, and singleness are all to be viewed in light of our highest pursuit: the kingdom of God.

Q. Why?

A. Because in God’s economy, the kingdom is most valuable. (Treasure hidden in a field; “Seek first…”)

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Submit our highest view of marriage and singleness to the ultimate agenda of the kingdom of God.

Q. Why?

A. Because God’s agenda should be his followers agenda. “All!”

OUTLINE & NOTES

Introduction

Not long ago, several of the elders and our wives were together and it came up that this passage on marriage and divorce was coming soon. One of the wives gave a quick sermon outline that I loved:

Wives’ Sermon outline in 3 steps:

  1. Select well

  2. Stay together

  3. Say your sorry

Bottom line: Jesus calls us to embrace his already high view of marriage and singleness making it our highest devotion: to King & Kingdom First.

Pharisees ask 2 questions:

  1. Question 1: Is it lawful to divorce one’s wife for any cause? (3)

    1. Nerve—

      1. Context

        • Jesus just taught about forgiveness at the end of Matthew 18

        • Jesus leaves Galilee marking the end of his significant Galilean ministry which began in 4:12 to “the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.”

          • He’s moving towards Jerusalem. (16:21; cf. 20:17)

          • He’s moving towards the cross and ultimate act of forgiveness.

        • But first he stops and heals the crowds. Multiple crowds. That’s crowds plural!

        • It’s after all of this healing that the Pharisees show up. Blind men with deaf and dumb question.

        • Finally, his context is our highest devotion is for our king and his kingdom; even his high view of marriage and singleness fall behind that.

      2. Do you see the nerve of this question?

        1. Instead of asking, “Where do your miraculous powers come from?” They ask about divorce.

        2. Instead of asking, “Tell us more about this death and resurrection business.” They ask about divorce.

        3. Instead of asking, “Are you the Messiah, the promised one?” They ask about divorce.

        4. These were audacious, wicked questions.

    2. Nature—

      1. These men were trying to test, tempt and trap Jesus.

      2. Tricky question. They were inviting Jesus to pick a side and then pay the consequences.

        1. Debate centered on interpretation of Deut. 24:1 and “some indecency” or “anything indecent” or “Any and every reason”

          1. Conservative view (Shammai): taught that God required divorce for sexual unfaithfulness (adultery) focused on the word “indecent” or “reason”

          2. Liberal view (Hillel): taught that God required divorce for “anything” or “any and every reason” in his wife. This could include any trivial reason like burning toast.

        2. They know he’s on the conservative side of things on this issue based on Matt 5:31-32 in the sermon on the mount where he taught that lust = spiritual adultery. And that’s what they want..

        3. Scenarios

          1. Best case: if he sides with the conservatives perhaps he will suffer the fate of John the Baptist. (Remember his beheading and why? Conservative views on marriage and divorce)

          2. Worst case: (still good for them) is that he falls into the next trap, their follow-up question about Deut. Ah, he’s a lawbreaker then! He disregards Moses. Either way, they think they have him. He either angers the powerful or the pious, or both the power and the pious.

  2. Answer 1: “Haven’t you read…” (4-6) 2 Observations:

    1. Jesus goes to the Bible for his answer.

      1. He goes to Genesis—not the last word on marriage but the most foundational.

      2. He challenges their basic Bible knowledge on the A, B, C’s of marriage. Letter A: God intended marriage between man and woman for life. There was no provision for divorce in paradise.

      3. His brief commentary on Genesis emphasizing God-ordained unity: “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

      4. In 4-6 “Jesus could have emphasized the equal image of the sexes, that both man and woman are made in the image of God. That’s true, but that’s not the issue at hand.”

      5. Or he could have emphasized the concept of heterosexual monogamy (one man and one woman)—that these texts teach against both polygamy and homosexuality. That’s true, but again that’s not the issue at hand here. Neither fits in God’s original intent for marriage.

      6. “Rather, he emphasizes God-ordained unity.

        1. “be united to his wife” (5)

        2. “One flesh” (5)

        3. “No longer two,” (6)

        4. “but one flesh” (6)

        5. “Let no one separate” (6)

        6. Unity, unity, unity, unity, and unity—obvious theme.

      7. Not so obvious, God is the focus here.

        1. While Genesis speaks of man’s action “a man will leave his father and mother…”

        2. Jesus speaks of God’s action “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

          1. It is God who brings people together into holy wedlock.

          2. EHarmony at it’s best—E is for Elohim:-) (Hebrew for God)

          3. God brings them together and doesn’t want man to separate what God has brought together—a physical and metaphysical new creation—one man/woman/flesh.

            1. That’s God’s math: 1 + 1 + 1 = 1 (Trinity)

            2. Marriage: 1 + 1 = 1 (Marriage)

    2. Jesus gives a divinely inspired purpose statement on marriage.

  3. Question 2 & Answer 2

    1. Question: “Why then did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”

      1. They’re trying to prove their point that Jesus’ view of divorce is not Moses’ view.

      2. Jesus responds offering 2 corrections and 1 command.

        1. First correction: Moses didn’t command divorce, but rather he allowed it. (7-8)

          1. NT Wright illustration: “Just as a car is made to drive safely on the road, not to skid around colliding with other cards, so marriage was made to be a partnership of one woman and one man for life, not something that could be split up and reassembled whenever one person wanted it…Moses didn’t say, as it were, ‘when you drive your car, this is how to have an accident’; rather, ‘when you drive a card, take care not to have an accident; but if, tragically, and accident occurs, this is how to deal with it.’”

          2. Moses didn’t command, “go wreck your car and get a new one.” Rather, he saw all the car wrecks and felt compelled to write some rules of the road. He tried to regulate the wrecks.

          3. Specific law: “If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, or if he dies, then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to marry her again after she has been defiled. That would be detestable in the eyes of the Lord. Do not bring sin upon the land the Lord your God is giving you as an inheritance.” Deut 24:1-4 NIV

        2. Second correction: “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard.” (8)

          1. Two wills of God:

            1. God’s idea will—the original intention of marriage advocated in Genesis “from the beginning” and

            2. God’s allowed (permissive) will—the necessary regulations due to human sin.

          2. Notice Jesus’ use of “You” and “Your”

            1. He doesn’t say “our” like a preacher would say—“it’s due to our sin”

            2. He doesn’t say “their” referring only to the men of Moses’ day.

            3. He says “your,” excluding himself (sinless savior) and including these Pharisees in the sins of their forefathers. Their hard-heartedness runs in the family.

            4. Marriage is not the problem.

            5. Hard-hearted men (and let’s add women, to be fair) are the problem. You and I are the problem. Not marriage.

            6. Take away hard-heartedness and you can take away all divorce laws, attorneys, courts and settlements.

            7. Oh that we would think first of Genesis and not Deuteronomy!

        3. One Command: “I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” (9)

          1. What’s surprising about this? Surprise 1: That, after vv. 4-6 & 8, Jesus allows for divorce at all.

          2. He seems to balance the 2 wills of God.

            1. He hates divorce—it’s never desirable. (Malachi)

            2. But, he allows divorce.

          3. Surprise 2: Jesus’ authority.

            1. “The Bible says…” (4-5)

            2. “The Bible says…” (8)

            3. “I tell you” (9)—Remember, Jesus has “All” authority. (28:18-20)

            4. Jesus is the greater Moses, greater Bible/word, greater authority!

          4. Exception clause:

            1. First, let’s read the command without the exception, “Anyone who divorces his wife…and marries another commits adultery.” (9)

              1. Jesus is clear: To divorce your spouse (for any reason you can come up with) and marry another is to commit adultery. That behavior, so common in our culture, is clearly against Christ’s command.

              2. But—adding the exception clause back in—if your spouse has been sexually immoral, you can get a divorce. It’s not required but it is permitted.

        4. 4 Questions:

          1. Question 1: What is meant by “sexually immorality” (porneia)?

          2. Answer: “Sexual intercourse that is contrary to the moral standards of OT law—e.g. incest, bestiality, homosexuality, fornication, and adultery. In our context it primarily but not exclusively refers to adultery—that is, having sexual relations with someone who is not your spouse.”

          3. Question 2: Why is adultery the one exception?

          4. Answer: “Because adultery is the one sin that tears apart the “one flesh” Jesus talked about in 5-6. According to the OT law, the punishment for adultery was death (Deut 22:22). Death—that’s the end of the marriage. In Roman culture (and Jewish culture) at that time of Jesus, this punishment was not in place. So Jesus puts something similar in place: adultery = (in some cases and in many cases) death, the death of the marriage via divorce.”

          5. Question 3: Is adultery the only exception?

          6. Answer: It is here. However, in 1 Cor 7:15 Paul adds another exception in a very different context. He allows divorce for abandonment often called “willful desertion.”

          7. Question 4: Does the sin of adultery (or any other grave sin) necessitate divorce?

          8. Answer: Certainly not. Why not?

            1. The lesson of Matthew 18 just prior is to forgive (70x7) because God forgave you for much more.

            2. If adultery occurs, you have 2 choices:

              1. Divorce. He/she has broken the “one flesh” covenant. It’s the death penalty.

              2. Forgive. “To re-embrace the repentant, to offer anew the gospel of forgiveness—70x7 forgiveness for a zillion-dollar debt.”

          9. For all your questions not answered here

            1. Think Genesis: Be united as one flesh. Hold fast to one another.

            2. Think Gospel: Forgive one another.

            3. Think Goal: What God has joined together, let no one separate.

  4. Higher View of the Kingdom

    1. Pharisees seem to disappear.

    2. Disciples step up and say, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

      1. Chauvinists? “If I can’t get rid of this woman whenever and for whatever, then why marry in the first place?” Perhaps

      2. Realists? “What marriage is so great that it lasts a lifetime? Come on, Jesus, lighten up.” Perhaps

      3. Clueless? Their track record on the teachings of Jesus is pretty clear.

    3. What’s unexpected is how Jesus shifts the conversation from marriage to singleness. He doesn’t reply to their comment.

    4. “Instead, he gives a eulogy for eunuchs, a tribute to single-minded singles:”

    5. A eunuch is someone who is single and not sexually active for one of 3 reasons:

      1. Natural (born that way)

      2. Unnatural (someone made that way), or this new category Jesus has introduced, which we’ll call

      3. Willfully or Volitionally (someone who desires to be that way or stay that way) for the gospel/kingdom.

    6. But his point is grander than “Esteem and embrace the gift of singleness.” “His point is this: The kingdom of heaven is so important that it should seem perfectly normal if someone would want to give up marriage for it.” P. 543

  5. Context:

    1. “Jesus teaches that you can’t have too high a view of marriage. It is so high the disciples are taken aback by it.”

    2. “But in vv. 11-12 he adds that however high your view of marriage is, your view of the kingdom ought to be far higher.”

    3. “The Church misses the point when we make marriage the point.” -543

    4. Marriage & Singleness from a Kingdom Perspective (God’s perspective)

      1. 16: self denial and cross bearing

      2. 18:21-35 Forgiveness

      3. 19:1-9 Marriage

      4. 19:10-12 Singleness, but more on single-minded devotion to the king and his kingdom gospel mission

    5. First focus: Always the Gospel.

      1. Not against focusing on the family. He started there in v. 1

      2. “But he is against focusing on the family or marriage or work or money or house or land or anything else ahead of the kingdom. Gospel first; everything else second—that’s his motto, and that’s his model.”

      3. That’s how he lived

        1. Denied himself marriage and the pleasures of marriage

          1. Companionship

          2. Physical intimacy

          3. Children

        2. “For the spread of the kingdom of heaven on earth. He was a eunuch for the kingdom.”

      4. And He calls those who can to do the same.

      5. And He calls those who can’t do the same to want the same “for the sake of the kingdom.” “Seek first…”

Conclusion

Bottom line: Jesus calls us to embrace his already high view of marriage and singleness making it our highest devotion: to King & Kingdom First.

  1. Raise your view of marriage to God’s original design and intent.

  2. Raise your view of singleness to God’s original purpose.

  3. Raise your devotion for what matters most to God: His kingdom mission.

  4. Find forgiveness and freedom from guilt in these words either by

    1. Recognizing that you may not be guilty of anything, or

    2. Confessing, repenting and receiving his merciful forgiveness for your sin of an unbiblical divorce.

MAIN REFERENCES USED

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

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Why Forgive? | Matthew 18:21-35

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “Why Forgive?” (Darien Gabriel)

Scripture: Matthew 18:21-35 NIV

Bottom line: We forgive others for their significant offenses against us because he first forgave us for our infinitely significant offenses against him.

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. SERMON OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. MAIN REFERENCES USED

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. What does it mean to become like children in verse 3? What is the difference between having childlike faith and being immature in your faith?

2. How does the requirement of humility in verses 1-4 compare with our culture's view of greatness?

3. Explain how a biblical view of the church goes against a culture that prizes independence?

4. How should the parable of the Lost Sheep in verses 10-14 inform our view of church discipline?

5. Respond to the following objection to church discipline: If our church disciplines members, then unbelievers will be turned off and discouraged from coming.

6. What is the ultimate goal of church discipline?

7. What does Matthew 18 have to add to our view of church membership?

8. List things that should and should not be matters of church discipline.

9. What is the main point of the parable of the Unforgiving Servant (wv. 23-35)?

10. If you aren't showing mercy to others, how might that be an indica tion that you are not being shaped by the gospel?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Weekly questions I answer in preparation for the sermon:

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. God forgives a sinner’s infinite offense against a holy creator God when they repent and believe in and through Jesus Christ.

Q. Why?

A. Because God is love, he loves his enemies this way. Because one humbly responds to God on his terms by grace through faith.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Embrace a perpetual heart attitude of forgiveness. Stop harboring un-forgiveness and forgive one another—those who’ve sinned against you.

Q. Why?

A. Because embracing this attitude reflects the love of God into a needy world.

Total Forgiveness by Nicky Gumbel

Bishop Sandy Millar speaks of a time when he was walking along the beach and he noticed how the sand had been churned up by the footprints of those who had gone before him. The next morning the footprints were all wiped away by the sea. He sensed Jesus saying to him, ‘That is a picture of forgiveness.’

Or to use another analogy, forgiveness from Jesus Christ is like deleting the file of all the bad stuff in our lives.

Forgiveness is never easy. We all know how hard it is to forgive others. However, we often assume that forgiveness from God is almost automatic. On her deathbed, the Empress Catherine the Great of Russia (1729–1796), said, ‘I shall be an autocrat: that’s my trade. The good Lord will forgive me: that’s his.’

OUTLINE & NOTES

Introduction

Bottom line: We forgive others for their significant offenses against us because he first forgave us for our infinitely significant offenses against him.

Refer to “Boomerang Kindness” youtube video https://youtu.be/nwAYpLVyeFU

Potato Famine in Ireland '... BUT' by Nicky Gumbel

During one of the severe potato famines in Ireland, a number of families wrote letters to their landlord saying they had absolutely no money at all to pay their rent and begged to be let off all their debts.

The Irish landlord was Canon Andrew Robert Fausset, born near Enniskillen, County Fermanagh, Ireland, in 1821. Canon Fausset wrote back to his tenants. He said it was quite impossible to let them off their debts. It would set a bad precedent. They had to pay every single penny.

‘*But*,’ he wrote, ‘I enclose something that might help you.’ In contrast to so many of the other landlords at the time, he sent a cheque for a very large sum of money – which far more than covered all their debts.

Their hearts must have leapt with joy when they saw the word ‘*but*’. ‘*But*’ is a powerful word when facing trouble, tests and temptations.

Emmanuel Nine forgiving Dillon Roof—some of them forgave him publicly.

Context

Matt. 18:1–20:34 The Community of the Messiah Revealed.

  • This is the fourth of Jesus’ five major discourses in Matthew’s Gospel

  • As his earthly ministry draws to a close, Jesus has spent considerable time clarifying his identity and mission (chs. 14–17).

    • He instructs his disciples on the nature of his covenant community, explaining the kingdom community’s characteristics (18:1–35),

    • its implications for the sanctity of marriage (19:1–12), and

    • its value (19:13–20:34). ESV Study Bible note

What’s important to remember about this context is that Jesus is dealing with how local believers interact with each other. They pursue wandering brothers and sisters in Christ. They lovingly confront sinful behavior. This is different than confronting someone in the world outside of the church.

I. Q&A (18:21-22)

A. The Question: How many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? (18:21)

    1. Peter knows rabbi’s taught 3x

    2. Peter suggests 7x

B. The Answer: Every time. (18:22)

    1. Jesus answers leveraging 7 into infinity.

    2. Jesus continues with another kingdom parable

II. Parable of unmerciful or unforgiving servant. (18:23-34)

A. First servant. (18:23-27)

    1. An insurmountable debt owed.

      1. Millions or billions. Some have said it essentially means an insurmountable amount of debt for anyone.

    2. An extravagant mercy given.

    3. Note

      1. It wasn’t easy. It costs us. It cost Jesus the cross. It will cost us too. That’s what Jesus means when he says, “If anyone come after me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow me.” Luke 9:23

      2. Gumbel wrote,

        1. “We do not earn our forgiveness; Jesus achieved that for you on the cross.

        2. But your willingness to forgive is evidence that you know God’s forgiveness.

        3. Forgiven people forgive.

        4. All of us have been forgiven so much by God that we must keep on forgiving the comparatively small offences committed against us.”

      3. It wasn’t natural. C.S. Lewis wrote: ‘Everyone thinks forgiveness is a lovely idea until they have something to forgive.’

      4. The servant didn’t deserve it.

      5. He didn’t feel like it but was moved by love.

      6. He didn’t all of a sudden trust the guy with more money.

      7. Yet, motivated by compassion/mercy/love, he forgave.

      8. Nicky Gumbel wrote, “Forgiveness is not easy. The cross reminds us how costly and painful it is. Forgiveness does not mean approving of what the other person did, nor excusing it, nor denying it, nor pretending that you are not hurt. Rather, you are aware of what the other person has done and yet you are called to forgive. In your personal relationships lay aside all malice, revenge and retribution and show mercy and grace to the person who has hurt you.”

B. Second servant. (18:28-34)

    1. A challenging debt owed.

      1. Ten thousand dollars?

        1. Significant, yes.

        2. Insignificant in light of the millions and billions he owed and was forgiven of

    2. An unbelievable lack of mercy given.

      1. Revealed a lack of comprehension for the mercy he’d received.

      2. Revealed a heart unwilling to give what he’d received.

      3. Note

        1. It wasn’t easy. He wasn’t willing to pay anything.

        2. It wasn’t natural. C.S. Lewis wrote: ‘Everyone thinks forgiveness is a lovely idea until they have something to forgive.’

        3. The servant didn’t deserve it.

        4. He didn’t feel like it and was NOT moved by love.

        5. He didn’t all of a sudden trust the guy as seen in imprisoning him.

        6. Not motivated by compassion/mercy/love, he DID NOT forgive.

      4. Conclusion

        1. Ultimately first servant loses benefit of being forgiven forever.

        2. When we don’t forgive, we show we have the same attitude of the heart.

III. Final word. (18:35)

A. Your mercy or lack of mercy reveals your spiritual position with the Lord. God will judge you accordingly—with justice, not mercy.

    1. Matthew 6:14-15

      1. Forgiving others is evidence you’ve truly been forgiven and born again.

      2. Not forgiving others is evidence you’ve not been forgiven and not born again.

    2. James 2:13 “…because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment.”

B. Solution: Humble yourself before a holy almighty God and repent of your sins and surrender your life to him today. This is THE way.

Conclusion

Emanuel Nine forgiving Dillon Roof for murdering their loved ones in their church motivated by racism.

Our bottom line today is

Bottom line: We forgive others for their significant offenses against us because he first forgave us for our infinitely significant offenses against him.

Application:

  1. Remember: God forgave us for our infinitely significant offense against a holy God.

  2. In response: We appropriately forgive all others every time for their significant offenses against us.

What is God saying to you right now?

Let’s pray.

David Platt’s notes

We Forgive One Another (18:21-35)

The context for Matthew 18 is how we as Christians treat one another when they sin against us.

Last exhortation in Matthew 18 is to forgive our brothers and sisters in Christ when they sin against us. This is a continuation from church discipline.

In those days, rabbis encouraged people to forgive a brother for repeated sin up to 3 times, after which there would be no forgiveness. So Peter decides to ask if 7 times would be enough, thinking he was greatly exceeding Jesus’ standard. Jesus responds with 70 X 7 times. Jesus follows this with an extreme example in the form of a parable. The parable is about a man who owes the king millions if not billions of dollars and cannot come close to paying it back. Yet the king motivated by mercy forgives the debt completely and sends the man away displaying amazing mercy and grace.

A number of takeaways:

  1. In Christ, we have received extravagant grace.

    1. There is no price tag we could ever put on our sinfulness before an infinitely holy God.

    2. “When you and I think, ‘Well, I haven’t sinned as much as this person or that person,,’ we show that we have no clue as to the extent of our own sin. Our debt is deep—infinitely deep.” P. 246

    3. “But Christ has paid it.” Motivated by compassion the Father sent his Son Jesus to the cross to free us—from sin’s penalty to be not just his servant but his son.

      1. Freed from the penalty of sin (justification).

      2. Freed from the power of sin (sanctification).

      3. Freed from the presence of sin one day (glorification).

  2. As Christians, we now extend extravagant grace.

    1. How harsh it is for a man forgiven so much to then send someone that owes him a tiny fraction as much to prison.

    2. “Yet for a Christian not to forgive is to do the exact same thing.”

      1. Not saying it’s easy to forgive.

      2. Not saying it’s natural to forgive.

      3. Am saying it’s Christ-like to forgive. As Christians, we have no other option.

      4. “We forgive not because we have to, but because in love we are compelled to.”

      5. “Only Jesus can enable the kind of forgiving heart this passage calls for.”

      6. “This kind of forgiveness should characterize the church.”

In sum: Stop harboring sin and forgive those who’ve sinned against you.

Douglass Sean O’Donnell’s notes

The Heart of Perfect Forgiveness

Peter asks his question on the heals of hearing about church discipline. He wants to know how many times he must forgive the one who sins against him and he knows it must be more than what the Jewish rabbis say, which is 3x based on some verses in Amos.

Jesus responds to Peter’s ambitious response of more than doubling the rabbis’ take with a more unrealistic number—every time.

70X, 70 X 7, 77X whatever—using this number that represents perfection, Jesus is saying every time. Limitless number of times. You don’t get to the 491st time and stop forgiving them because they’ve exceeded their allotted number of forgiveness chips.

Of course, as we saw last week, the church has the authority to forgive (keep in fellowship) and not forgive (remove from the fellowship) when one is unwilling to repent of their sin. That’s why the church has the authority to “bind”. God and his church are to hold the guilty accountable. Those who do not cut off sin are in turn cut off from the fellowship God calls to be holy.

“What Jesus says in 18:22 is that Christians must forgive other Christians who ask for forgiveness and must forgive them (if needed) over and over.” P. 522

Will we sin 490 times?

It’s safe to say we sin once a day (at least), I think.

365 days/year x 1 sin/day x 57 years (my age) = 20,805 sins so far

I mean we sin 490 times every 16 months at this rate. (And I think we sin much more than this)

Through Christ, God doesn’t keep count. So don’t keep count.

Unless you don’t know Christ. Then know that he’s keeping count whether you are or not. In fact, he has a book with each one written down. Every idle word you’ve spoken is written. Every social media post you’ve responded to or posted—recorded. He knows every thought you’ve had that never left your brain. Accountable. You’re accountable for every one.

This is why we need his forgiveness. Extravagant forgiveness.

And as Christ has forgiven us over and over again, we’re to forgive each other over and over again. It’s that simple. Not easy—but clearly what we should do.

The Question of Chapter 18

"At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, 'Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" Matthew 18:1

The rest of the chapter is a response to that question.

--God's Search and Rescue Plan: Church Discipline by David V. Edling, p. 6

From John Stott wrote in "Christian Counter-culture":

"The addition of the words as we also have forgiven our debtors is further emphasized in verses 14 and 15 which follow the prayer and state that our Father will forgive us if we forgive others but will not forgive us if we refuse to forgive others. This certainly does not mean that our forgiveness of others earns us the right to be forgiven. It is rather that God forgives only the penitent and that one of the chief evidences of true penitence is a forgiving spirit. Once our eyes have been opened to see the enormity of our offence against God, the injuries which others have done to us appear by comparison extremely triffling. If, on the other hand, we have an exaggerated view of the offences of others, it proves that we have minimized our own. It is the disparity between the size of debts which is the main point of the parable of the unmerciful servant. It's conclusion is: 'I forgave you all that debt (which was huge)...; should you not have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?'" pp. 149-150

Matthew 18:10-35, Nicky Gumbel

Understand the relationship between human freedom and suffering

God loves you. Love is not love if it is forced; it can only be love if there is a real choice. God gave human beings a choice and the freedom to love or not to love. So much suffering is caused by us choosing not to love God or others: ‘The sorrows of those will increase who run after other gods’ (Psalm 16:4).

However, Jesus expressly repudiates the automatic link between sin and suffering (John 9:1–3). He also points out that natural disasters are not necessarily a form of punishment from God (Luke 13:1–5). But some suffering is a direct result either of our own sin or the sin of others. In this passage we see three examples:

  1. Wandering away

    Jesus speaks about a sheep that ‘wanders away’ (Matthew 18:12). When we wander away from the protection of The Shepherd we become vulnerable. But God will never stop searching for us because he ‘is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost’ (v.14).

  2. Sin of others

    Jesus says, ‘If your brother or sister sins against you’ (v.15). So much suffering in the world is the result of other people’s sin – both at a global and community level, and also at an individual one. In this passage, Jesus sets out a way of reconciliation.

    He calls his disciples to unlimited forgiveness. Jesus says that when people sin against us we are to forgive them – not just seven times, but seventy-seven times (vv.21–22). (Or 70 x 7)

    Forgiveness is not easy. The cross reminds us how costly and painful it is. Forgiveness does not mean approving of what the other person did, nor excusing it, nor denying it, nor pretending that you are not hurt. Rather, you are aware of what the other person has done and yet you are called to forgive. In your personal relationships lay aside all malice, revenge and retribution and show mercy and grace to the person who has hurt you.

  3. Unforgiveness

    Sometimes forgiving can be extremely hard. As C.S. Lewis wrote: ‘Everyone thinks forgiveness is a lovely idea until they have something to forgive.’

    In the final parable, we can see the destructive nature of unforgiveness. The first servant’s unwillingness to forgive a comparatively minor debt (around three-and-a-half month’s wages compared to around 160,000 years’ wages for an average person) destroys his relationship with the other servants, and leads to the second servant being cast into prison. So often unforgiveness destroys relationships between people, and results in them lashing out against those they think have sinned against them. We see the results of this in marriage breakdowns, broken relationships, or in conflicts between different communities.

    We do not earn our forgiveness; Jesus achieved that for you on the cross. But your willingness to forgive is evidence that you know God’s forgiveness. Forgiven people forgive. All of us have been forgiven so much by God that we must keep on forgiving the comparatively small offences committed against us.

    I’m so thankful that God does not put a limit on how often he forgives me. Yet when I look at others I am tempted to think, ‘I’m happy to forgive once, or even twice, but if they keep on doing this surely I’m not expected to keep on forgiving.’

Cultivate in your heart the same attitude towards others as God has towards you.

Lord, help me to use my freedom to love, to search for the lost and to have mercy. Help me not to cause suffering but rather to give my life, following the example of Jesus, for the relief of suffering.

MAIN REFERENCES USED

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

God's Search and Rescue Plan: Church Discipline by David V. Edling

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How to Practice Church Discipline | Matthew 18:15-20

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “How to Practice Church Discipline” (Darien Gabriel)

Scripture: Matthew 18:15-20 NIV

Heavily relied on O’Donnell for this one. (See below)

Bottom line: We all practice church discipline by lovingly confronting those who sin against us (per Matthew 18) with the aim of restoring the relationship.

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. SERMON OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. MAIN REFERENCES USED

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. What does it mean to become like children in verse 3? What is the difference between having childlike faith and being immature in your faith?

2. How does the requirement of humility in verses 1-4 compare with our culture's view of greatness?

3. Explain how a biblical view of the church goes against a culture that prizes independence?

4. How should the parable of the Lost Sheep in verses 10-14 inform our view of church discipline?

5. Respond to the following objection to church discipline: If our church disciplines members, then unbelievers will be turned off and discouraged from coming.

6. What is the ultimate goal of church discipline?

7. What does Matthew 18 have to add to our view of church membership?

8. List things that should and should not be matters of church discipline.

9. What is the main point of the parable of the Unforgiving Servant (wv. 23-35)?

10. If you aren't showing mercy to others, how might that be an indica tion that you are not being shaped by the gospel?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Weekly questions I answer in preparation for the sermon:

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. How to practice church discipline

Q. Why?

A. Because it leads to a holier and healthier church family

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Practice church discipline/confrontation per Matthew 18

Q. Why?

A. Because these steps lead to a holier, healthier church family.

OUTLINE & NOTES

Our oldest grandson is almost 2-1/2 years old. He trusts his parents and grandparents right now. He has an implicit faith in us. When we tell him something, he just believes us. You might call him innocent. He is not! You might call him naive. But for now he trusts us implicitly and humbly. He just knows he doesn’t know near as much as we do.

This is what I think Jesus was trying to communicate to his 12 earlier here. To know that you’re a son off the king, you must humble yourself and turn and become like a 2-3 yr old trusting your Heavenly Father in all he says.

Context

Matt. 18:1–20:34 The Community of the Messiah Revealed.

  • This is the fourth of Jesus’ five major discourses in Matthew’s Gospel

  • As his earthly ministry draws to a close, Jesus has spent considerable time clarifying his identity and mission (chs. 14–17).

    • He instructs his disciples on the nature of his covenant community, explaining the kingdom community’s characteristics (18:1–35),

    • its implications for the sanctity of marriage (19:1–12), and

    • its value (19:13–20:34). ESV Study Bible note

What’s important to remember about this context is that Jesus is dealing with how local believers interact with each other. They pursue wandering brothers and sisters in Christ. They lovingly confront sinful behavior. This is different than confronting someone in the world outside of the church.

Introduction

Bottom line: We all practice church discipline by lovingly confronting those who sin against us (per Matthew 18) with the aim of restoring the relationship.

Church discipline is the act of lovingly confronting one who sins against us so that they humbly respond with repentance restoring their relationship with us and the Lord.

How do we do this?

First, Why confront?

My notes after reading O’Donnell

Have you ever been legitimately confronted over something you did wrong? Or sin?

It’s a humbling experience. Makes you feel small.

“But small, as we learned (earlier in Matthew 18), is the appropriate size to get into the kingdom as well as move up in it. Thus, if confrontation can lead to that kind of smallness, it is something we all, from time to time, very well need.” P. 509

Why confront?

This passage is about how the church (the people) confronts the one who sins against them. But before we tackle how, let’s understand why we even do it.

Most churches want to do this as much as a parent wants to spank a child in the Super Walmart. It’s hard form some to hear that a church can excommunicate someone. It sounds harsh, judgmental, unloving and so against the spirit of the age. This is why we start with why?

4 reasons one Christian confronts another:

1 from our passage and

3 from the surrounding context

  1. The first reason for Christian confrontation is the value of one straying sheep.

    1. Notice how Jesus moves from his parable of the lost sheep directly to this. Matthew inserts nothing in between. Presumably, Jesus does not stop talking in between.

      1. From: Sheep—how God values each individual Christian, even and especially strayed sheep

      2. To: This

      3. Why? Because they are thematically linked.

      4. The Father’s concern for sinners and the Shepherd’s rescue of those who’ve wandered from the fold are now the church’s concern.

    2. The Church confronts because we value each and every sheep, even and especially straying sheep.

  2. The second reason for Christian confrontation is the hope of forgiveness and family reconciliation.

    1. Immediate context: Theme is the forgiveness of a brother’s sin.

      1. Note “Brother” is generic for Christian but is also familial language. He could have used “disciple”

      2. Family reconciliations are the best. Think of the prodigal son. (Luke 15)

  3. The third reason for Christian confrontation is, a little laxity leads to a lot of lapsing.

    1. Paul said, “a little leaven leaven’s the whole lump.” 1 Cor 5:6

    2. A little leaven (neglected sin in the church) leaven’s the whole lump (affects whole church)

    3. A little laxity (let this or that sin go unchecked) leads to a lot of lapsing (I guess if he does that, I can do this)

    4. Cutting off sin (18:8-9) “That by guarding our own personal holiness we guard others, especially those weaker in the faith” p. 511

    5. Ex. “Newly baptized Christian sees an elder in the church sinning, and that elder is not confronted and corrected by the church, then the younger Christian will likely be tempted to similarly sin.” p. 511

    6. “Christian confrontation helps protect and purify the church (like salt), and it helps prevent the spread of sin throughout the Body of Christ.”

  4. The fourth reason for Christian confrontation is that it is a command of Christ…because Jesus is Lord.”

    1. Reproof and love go together.

    2. “Do not hate a fellow Israelite in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you will not share in their guilt. Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.” Lev 19:17-18

    3. Tolerating sin is not loving.

    4. Because God loves, God disciplines.

    5. It’s the loving shepherd who goes after the lost sheep.

    6. The unloving shepherd stays at home

      1. He’s either indifferent (what’s 1 out of 100), or

      2. He’s lenient (oh, sheep will be sheep)

    7. So, Christians are to confront sinning Christians because

      1. We value one straying sheep

      2. We hope for forgiveness and family reconciliation

      3. We know that a little laxity leads to a lot of lapsing, and

      4. Christian confrontation is a loving command from the most loving man who ever lived.

Then, How confront?

3 Strikes and You’re Out (Quick and dirty)

  1. Confront one on one.

    1. If they listen, you’ve won them over. It’s over.

    2. If they don’t, proceed to step two.

  2. Confront with 2-3 witnesses.

    1. If they listen, you’ve won them over. It’s over.

    2. If they don’t, proceed to step three.

  3. Confront with the church.

    1. If they listen, you’ve won them over. It’s over.

    2. If they don’t, you expel them from the church and treat them as a non-Christian.

More detailed outline…

How to Lovingly Confront—3 Steps (O’Donnell)

  1. Go and win (gain)

    1. First, 3 important details

      1. Notice who is confronting whom—it’s brother to brother…

        1. Not brother to person in the world.

        2. There’s a time for that—this isn’t about that.

      2. Notice when this occurs—only “if your brother sins against you.” (In ESV text; footnoted in NIV)

        1. Just between you and him alone (if have “against you” personally as in ESV)

        2. And it is “sin”, behavior that is clearly and consistently contrary to Christ’s commands

        3. This is not bad personality traits or poor hygiene

      3. Notice (speaking on sin) that Jesus assumes Christians will sin

    2. Step 1: Go and win (Gain) PRIVATE CORRECTION / LOVING CONFRONTATION

      1. First step is not…

        1. To wait

        2. To sit and sulk

        3. To give a cold shoulder or silent treatment

        4. Indifference

        5. Tit for tat

        6. To gossip

        7. To slander

      2. Rather, step 1 is a private conversation—underline “just between the two of you” (15)

        1. Gently and/or

        2. With holy harshness

        3. Nathan modeled this in a balanced way with King David (2 Sam 12:1-7)

        4. Paul throughout his ministry; Gal 2:11 I opposed Peter to his face

        5. Jesus showed holy harshness in 18:8-9

        6. Regardless, the spirit is that of humility and love, a solemn concern for your brother’s soul

        7. So we go hoping to win i.e. restore, gain to God and to fellowship with the church

        8. Hoping to bring light to their darkness. If he sees this darkness, confesses it, asks for forgiveness, you’re won or gained your brother

    3. Step 2: Establish Testimony (evidence) SMALL GROUP CLARIFICATION

      1. Jesus is practical

      2. Jesus is also realistic. Most of us get defensive when confronted.

      3. Why? Because we’re proud. Instead of melting like butter, we harden like clay.

      4. “Jesus’ lesson on becoming like little children applies well here as well. Humility is needed! and such humility is helped along by bringing others to hear the case.” P. 516

      5. 2 or 3 others/witnesses comes from Deut 19:15. Why?

        1. To protect against a false accusation—brother B is exaggerating or lying about brother A’s offense.

        2. To help brother A, if he’s been rightly accused, to see his sin as sin, or in other words, to add their voice of reproof so he might repent, and

        3. To be public witnesses, if needed, if the matter comes to the whole church (2 Cor 13:1; 1 Tim 5:19)

    4. Step 3: Church Censure CHURCH ADMONITION & POSSIBLY EXCOMMUNICATION

      1. A censure is an official reprimand and judgment. Here it is the church saying, “3 strikes and your out—you’ve been excommunicated from the fellowship.”p. 516

      2. First, let’s be clear on who is to blame here—it’s the unrepentant brother—he has refused to “listen”

      3. This text isn’t just how to confront—it’s how to respond to confrontation

      4. 3 Strikes and you’re out

        1. “If a sinner won’t cut off his sin, the church cuts him off.” V. 17

        2. That is, treat him like someone who has betrayed the covenant (like a traitor tax collector) and someone who does not currently believe in the covenant (gentile or pagan); their actions move leaders to declare that they are not a follower of Christ

        3. In NT, excommunication meant not allowing this unrepentant “brother” to participate in the public gatherings—

          1. A worship service

          2. Lord’s Supper

          3. Prayer meeting

          4. A judicial meeting

          5. For some, this is the limited version

          6. For others, it was unlimited restriction:

            1. “If any false teacher ‘comes to you…do not receive him into your home or give him any greeting’” (2 John 10)

            2. “As for a person who stirs up division, after warning him once and then twice (i.e. Matthew 18:15-17), have nothing to do with him.” (Titus 3:10)

            3. “[Do] not …associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is justly or sexually immoral or greedy, or is an idolater, reviled, drunkard, or swindler”—[Do] not even eat with such a one.” (1 Cor 5:11)

            4. “Yet for both—with limited and unlimited restriction—the hope was held out that this ‘severe measure’ would make the sinner come to his senses, that this ‘brother’ would act like a brother should —repent and return.” P. 517

            5. 1 Cor 5-6

            6. 2 Thess 3:14-15

      5. Coming out of 15-17, Jesus masterfully assumes there will be pushback. “Says who?” AUTHORITY

        1. “You see, when a brother or sister is excommunicated, before they leave (and/or sue) the disciplining church and go to another, they will nearly always reply to the disciplining church, ‘You’re not God. Who gives you the right?’ And to that objection our Lord leaves his church 18-20, his gentle way of saying ‘shut it’” pp. 517-18

        2. “These verses are not about the value of prayer meetings.”

        3. “Rather, these verses are about Jesus giving his divine authority to forgive sins (or loose) or not forgive (to bind) into the hands of the church.” P. 518

        4. “If the local church gathers together in the name of Christ—even two or three—to judge another brother (that’s the context, v. 17 esp.), then what these brothers decide on earth is decided (already) in heaven. Why? Jesus’ answer is, ‘Because I say so’…It’s a matter of transference of authority.” P. 518

        5. “The church has been given the authority to forgive (receive back into fellowship) or excommunicate (remove from fellowship). This is how we use the keys to the kingdom.

Conclusion

Our bottom line today is that we all practice church discipline by lovingly confronting those who’ve sinned against us with the aim of restoring the relationship.

  1. Are you ever confronting sin?

  2. When you do, do you do so with humility and love and the aim to restore the relationship?

  3. Is someone confronting you?

  4. Are you responding with humility and repentance?

  5. Is the Lord challenging you to join your local church?

What is God saying to you right now?

Let’s pray.

Church discipline -various levels by warren wiersbe

“Various levels of church discipline

Personal differences between Christians (Matt. 18:15–18; Phil. 4:1–3). 

If a brother or sister sins against me (either deliberately or unknowingly), I should go to that person privately and seek to get the matter settled. Only if the person refuses to settle the matter should I bring anyone else in; and the problem must not go to the church family until every other means has been exhausted.

Doctrinal error. 

Determine first of all why the person is teaching wrong doctrine. Perhaps it is because of ignorance and lack of Bible knowledge. In that case, patiently teach him the truth (2 Tim. 2:23–26). If he persists, rebuke him (Titus 1:10–14). Paul had to do this to Peter (Gal. 2:11ff). If the error continues, avoid him (Rom. 16:17–18), and then separate yourself from him (2 Tim. 2:18ff; 2 John 9ff).

A believer overtaken by sin (Gal. 6:1–3).

Even the great Apostle Peter denied the Lord. And David yielded to lust and committed adultery. When a Christian is caught in known sin, the spiritual members of the church must seek to restore him with gentleness and love. The word restore here means “to set a broken bone”—and that takes tenderness and patience. Too often the church quickly passes judgment on a believer who has sinned, and the damage done causes problems for years to come.

A repeating troublemaker (Titus 3:10). 

The word heretic does not refer to doctrinal error, but to a proud attitude of one who gets people to “take sides” in the church. The Greek word means “to make a choice.” This leads to divisions and cliques in the local church (see Gal. 5:20 where heresies ought to be translated “sects, parties”). There is hardly a church that does not have its parties for or against anything—the pastor, the building program, even the color of the kitchen walls. Usually these “heretics” are people who like to be important; they want a following. Often they have deep emotional problems that Satan can use to create spiritual problems in the church. Perhaps they are frustrated at home or on the job; or perhaps they have, in the past, been hurt by some pastor or church.

These “factious people” should be given two official warnings. If they repeat their sin of dividing the church, they should be given a third warning and rejected. “Warn a divisive person once, and then warn him a second time. After that, have nothing to do with him. You may be sure that such a man is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned” (Titus 3:10–11, niv).

It is my conviction that such people should not hold office in the church. It is also my conviction that, if they leave the church “in a conviction that, if they leave the church “in a huff,” they should be restored to fellowship only twice. The third time—they are out!

Open immorality (1 Cor. 5).

The church must mourn over the sinner (the same word is used for mourning over the dead) and seek to bring him to repentance. If he refuses, the church collectively should dismiss him (1 Cor. 5:13, where the Greek word means “expel”). If he repents, he must be forgiven and restored to fellowship in the church (2 Cor. 2:6–11).

In the case of the “lazy saints,” Paul told the believers to exhort them, warn them, and if they did not repent, withdraw intimate fellowship from them. This probably meant that these believers were not permitted to share in the Lord’s Supper, and that the church members would not invite them to their homes. Second Thessalonians 3:14 does not apply to every case of discipline. It applies only to the matter of saints not working for a living.

“Have no company” literally means “do not get mixed up with”; the same word is used in 1 Corinthians 5:9. There is a difference between acquaintanceship, friendship, and fellowship; for fellowship means “to have in common.” For obedient saints to treat disobedient Christians with the same friendship they show to other dedicated saints is to give approval to their sins.

However, Paul (knowing the tendency of human nature to go to extremes) cautioned them not to treat the offenders like enemies. “They are still your brothers in Christ,” he added. Lot was out of fellowship with God and Abraham because he lived in Sodom; yet Abraham rescued Lot from the enemy because Lot was his brother (Gen. 14, and note especially v. 14). It requires much patience, love, and grace to help an erring brother; and this is why Paul added a final motive for earning a living.”

Church Discipline by Warren Wiersbe

The Question of Chapter 18

"At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, 'Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" Matthew 18:1

The rest of the chapter is a response to that question.

--God's Search and Rescue Plan: Church Discipline by David V. Edling, p. 6

From John Stott wrote in "Christian Counter-culture":

"The addition of the words as we also have forgiven our debtors is further emphasized in verses 14 and 15 which follow the prayer and state that our Father will forgive us if we forgive others but will not forgive us if we refuse to forgive others. This certainly does not mean that our forgiveness of others earns us the right to be forgiven. It is rather that God forgives only the penitent and that one of the chief evidences of true penitence is a forgiving spirit. Once our eyes have been opened to see the enormity of our offence against God, the injuries which others have done to us appear by comparison extremely triffling. If, on the other hand, we have an exaggerated view of the offences of others, it proves that we have minimized our own. It is the disparity between the size of debts which is the main point of the parable of the unmerciful servant. It's conclusion is: 'I forgave you all that debt (which was huge)...; should you not have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?'" pp. 149-150

MAIN REFERENCES USED

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

God's Search and Rescue Plan: Church Discipline by David V. Edling

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How to Care for New Believers | Matthew 18:10-14

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “How to Care for New Believers” (Darien Gabriel)

Scripture: Matthew 18:10-14 NIV

Bottom line: Because he values them so, it’s our (the Church) responsibility to intentionally care for new believers with focused urgency so that they will persevere in their faith.

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. REFERENCES/BIBLIOGRAPHY

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. What does it mean to become like children in verse 3? What is the difference between having childlike faith and being immature in your faith?

2. How does the requirement of humility in verses 1-4 compare with our culture's view of greatness?

3. Explain how a biblical view of the church goes against a culture that prizes independence?

4. How should the parable of the Lost Sheep in verses 10-14 inform our view of church discipline?

5. Respond to the following objection to church discipline: If our church disciplines members, then unbelievers will be turned off and discouraged from coming.

6. What is the ultimate goal of church discipline?

7. What does Matthew 18 have to add to our view of church membership?

8. List things that should and should not be matters of church discipline.

9. What is the main point of the parable of the Unforgiving Servant (wv. 23-35)?

10. If you aren't showing mercy to others, how might that be an indica tion that you are not being shaped by the gospel?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Weekly questions I answer in preparation for the sermon:

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. That God values “little ones” or new believers greatly!

Q. Why?

A. Because they are no longer enemies but his family.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. That we’re to care for new believers with the same intensity that an angel from God does.

Q. Why?

A. Because He “is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.” We have a responsibility to disciple and shepherd them on his behalf.

OUTLINE & NOTES

Our oldest grandson is almost 2-1/2 years old. He trusts his parents and grandparents right now. He has an implicit faith in us. When we tell him something, he just believes us. You might call him innocent. He is not! You might call him naive. But for now he trusts us implicitly and humbly. He just knows he doesn’t know near as much as we do.

This is what I think Jesus was trying to communicate to his 12 earlier here. To know that you’re a son off the king, you must humble yourself and turn and become like a 2-3 yr old trusting your Heavenly Father in all he says.

Context

Matt. 18:1–20:34 The Community of the Messiah Revealed.

  • This is the fourth of Jesus’ five major discourses in Matthew’s Gospel

  • As his earthly ministry draws to a close, Jesus has spent considerable time clarifying his identity and mission (chs. 14–17).

    • He instructs his disciples on the nature of his covenant community, explaining the kingdom community’s characteristics (18:1–35),

    • its implications for the sanctity of marriage (19:1–12), and

    • its value (19:13–20:34). ESV Study Bible note

Introduction

https://youtu.be/4DZNMgiqFYE

Let’s review 1-9

  • Jesus is speaking to his disciples who presumably are already in the kingdom. But Jesus cautions, not so fast?!

  • He shows them that they are not citizens of the kingdom until they are sons of the king. First things first.

  • Context shows this isn’t about evangelism but discipleship. This whole chapter is about how believers are to interact with one another.

  • Only second time “church” is used in Matthew in this chapter. (See 18:17)

  • Jesus reminds the 12 how to become a son/citizen—humble faith.

  • Uses 2-3 yr old as object lesson

  • They have implicit faith—they just believe because they trust their parents (Lincoln is 2-1/2)

  • RC Sproul wrote:

  • Then there’s the warning about causing them to stumble.

  • “Little ones” = new & naive believers

  • Better not be one who causes them to stumble!

Then we get to 10-14

  • Because of this context, we see that while Luke is coming at this from angle of evangelism, Matthew is more like discipleship.

  • But what this really shows is that evangelism is discipleship happening before conversion.

  • “The man” (Shepherd, parent, teacher, church member) pursues the wandering lamb until he brings it home or is unable to bring it home.

  • God greatly values “little ones” as seen in his assigning angels to minister to them specifically.

  • God’s will…

    • His will of decree (“Let there be light” and there was light)

    • His will of precept (It is God’s will that his people have no other gods before him. Exod 20:3)

    • His will of disposition (Ezekiel 33:11 God takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked)

  1. God wants us to know that he values new believers greatly!

  2. God doesn’t want them to perish! But since they can,…

  3. God wants us to care for them with focused urgency so that they will persevere in their faith until the end.

Conclusion

End with Andy Stanley story

Bottom line: Because God values them so, it’s our responsibility (the Church) to care for new believers with focused urgency so that they will persevere in the faith.

  1. God wants us to know that he values new believers greatly!

  2. God doesn’t want them to perish! But since they can,…

  3. God wants us to care for them with focused urgency so that they will persevere in their faith until the end.

Let’s pray.

Church discipline -various levels by warren wiersbe

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Various levels of church discipline

Personal differences between Christians (Matt. 18:15–18; Phil. 4:1–3). 

If a brother or sister sins against me (either deliberately or unknowingly), I should go to that person privately and seek to get the matter settled. Only if the person refuses to settle the matter should I bring anyone else in; and the problem must not go to the church family until every other means has been exhausted.

Doctrinal error. 

Determine first of all why the person is teaching wrong doctrine. Perhaps it is because of ignorance and lack of Bible knowledge. In that case, patiently teach him the truth (2 Tim. 2:23–26). If he persists, rebuke him (Titus 1:10–14). Paul had to do this to Peter (Gal. 2:11ff). If the error continues, avoid him (Rom. 16:17–18), and then separate yourself from him (2 Tim. 2:18ff; 2 John 9ff).

A believer overtaken by sin (Gal. 6:1–3).

Even the great Apostle Peter denied the Lord. And David yielded to lust and committed adultery. When a Christian is caught in known sin, the spiritual members of the church must seek to restore him with gentleness and love. The word restore here means “to set a broken bone”—and that takes tenderness and patience. Too often the church quickly passes judgment on a believer who has sinned, and the damage done causes problems for years to come.

A repeating troublemaker (Titus 3:10). 

The word heretic does not refer to doctrinal error, but to a proud attitude of one who gets people to “take sides” in the church. The Greek word means “to make a choice.” This leads to divisions and cliques in the local church (see Gal. 5:20 where heresies ought to be translated “sects, parties”). There is hardly a church that does not have its parties for or against anything—the pastor, the building program, even the color of the kitchen walls. Usually these “heretics” are people who like to be important; they want a following. Often they have deep emotional problems that Satan can use to create spiritual problems in the church. Perhaps they are frustrated at home or on the job; or perhaps they have, in the past, been hurt by some pastor or church.

These “factious people” should be given two official warnings. If they repeat their sin of dividing the church, they should be given a third warning and rejected. “Warn a divisive person once, and then warn him a second time. After that, have nothing to do with him. You may be sure that such a man is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned” (Titus 3:10–11, niv).

It is my conviction that such people should not hold office in the church. It is also my conviction that, if they leave the church “in a conviction that, if they leave the church “in a huff,” they should be restored to fellowship only twice. The third time—they are out!

Open immorality (1 Cor. 5).

The church must mourn over the sinner (the same word is used for mourning over the dead) and seek to bring him to repentance. If he refuses, the church collectively should dismiss him (1 Cor. 5:13, where the Greek word means “expel”). If he repents, he must be forgiven and restored to fellowship in the church (2 Cor. 2:6–11).

In the case of the “lazy saints,” Paul told the believers to exhort them, warn them, and if they did not repent, withdraw intimate fellowship from them. This probably meant that these believers were not permitted to share in the Lord’s Supper, and that the church members would not invite them to their homes. Second Thessalonians 3:14 does not apply to every case of discipline. It applies only to the matter of saints not working for a living.

“Have no company” literally means “do not get mixed up with”; the same word is used in 1 Corinthians 5:9. There is a difference between acquaintanceship, friendship, and fellowship; for fellowship means “to have in common.” For obedient saints to treat disobedient Christians with the same friendship they show to other dedicated saints is to give approval to their sins.

However, Paul (knowing the tendency of human nature to go to extremes) cautioned them not to treat the offenders like enemies. “They are still your brothers in Christ,” he added. Lot was out of fellowship with God and Abraham because he lived in Sodom; yet Abraham rescued Lot from the enemy because Lot was his brother (Gen. 14, and note especially v. 14). It requires much patience, love, and grace to help an erring brother; and this is why Paul added a final motive for earning a living.

Church Discipline Notes

"At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, 'Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" Matthew 18:1

The rest of the chapter is a response to that question. -God's Search and Rescue Plan: Church Discipline by David V. Edling, p. 6

See various levels by Warren Wiersbe

From John Stott in "Christian Counter-culture":

"The addition of the words as we also have forgiven our debtors is further emphasized in verses 14 and 15 which follow the prayer and state that our Father will forgive us if we forgive others but will not forgive us if we refuse to forgive others. This certainly does not mean that our forgiveness of others earns us the right to be forgiven. It is rather that God forgives only the penitent and that one of the chief evidences of true penitence is a forgiving spirit. Once our eyes have been opened to see the enormity of our offence against God, the injuries which others have done to us appear by comparison extremely triffling. If, on the other hand, we have an exaggerated view of the offences of others, it proves that we have minimized our own. It is the disparity between the size of debts which is the main point of the parable of the unmerciful servant. It's conclusion is: 'I forgave you all that debt (which was huge)...; should you not have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?'" pp. 149-150

REFERENCES/BIBLIOGRAPHY

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“CSB Christ Chronological,” Holman

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

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Who is the GOAT? | Matthew 18:1-9

How to be the GOAT (Greatest of All Time)?  Matthew 18:1-9 || 2/19/23

Have you heard the saying, “He is the GOAT” “Greatest Of All Time.”

Disciples ask a version of the question, "Who is the greatest?"

Here in Matthew 18, we find the fourth of 5 great discourses in Matthew.

The Lead In:  

  • Matthew 16 - Jesus asked the disciples, “Who do the people say that the Son of Man is?”  Followed by “Who do you say that I am?” and Peter’s confession in Matthew 16:16. 

  • Matthew 17 we read the account of the transfiguration on the mountain with Jesus, Moses, and Elijah.  Peter, James, and John witnessed. 

·      Moses – burning bush, parting of the Red Sea, 10 Commandments,…

·      Elijah – powerful OT prophet, facing off against prophets of Baal. 

The disciples knew He was the messiah who the O.T. spoke of.  Jesus also told them He would suffer and die, but they seem to have missed the point.  

Notice these first four verses of Matt. 18 set the stage for the rest of the chapter and how to relate to other Christians.  God will deal with those who lead His children into sin.  Jesus illustrates that sin is deadly and His followers should be deal with quickly with it.

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How Does Worshiping Jesus Christ Affect My Daily Life? Part 2 | Matthew 17:14-27

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Title: “How does worshiping Jesus Christ affect my daily life? Part 2” (Darien Gabriel)

Scripture: Matthew 17:14-27 NIV

Bottom line: Treasuring Christ transforms us when we “listen to him” as the Father commands.

  1. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  2. OUTLINE & NOTES

  3. REFERENCES/BIBLIOGRAPHY

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. How is Jesus' patience different from our culture's idea of tolerance?

2. What about Jesus' prediction in verses 22-23 tells us that He wasn't a victim of circumstances?

3. Does Jesus' promise that nothing will be impossible for the one who believes (v. 21) mean that God is obligated to give us what we want if we believe sincerely enough? Why not?

4. What was Jesus' attitude toward the political powers of His day?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Weekly questions I answer in preparation for the sermon:

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. That we are transformed by what we treasure; we live our lives based on what we worship.

Q. Why?

A. Because you are changed by what you value—what you truly love. This drives your motivations and decisions.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Treasure Christ above all so that you’ll “listen to him” through verses 14-27.

Q. Why?

A. Because there is no better way to please God (our eternal rabbi) than to “Listen to him.”

OUTLINE & NOTES

Introduction

Dave Adamson writes, “I ONCE ASKED A RABBI why he didn't believe Jesus was the Messiah.

The rabbi, a personal friend of mine from New Jersey named Rabbi Lubin, told me that while he believed Jesus was a great rabbi, he couldn't accept Jesus as Messiah because his followers have done so many destructive things in his name.

"Jews judge a rabbi based on the behavior of their followers," he said.

Read that again: "Jews judge a rabbi based on the behavior of their followers." This was the reason my friend didn't believe Jesus was the Messiah. He followed up by adding, "The behavior of the disciple reflects the authority of the rabbi."

If you're like me, that line felt a lot like a punch in the gut. As it should!

Now, with that thought ringing in your ears, what does it look like to "make disciples" who accurately reflect the teachings of Jesus? This is a question I've been processing almost every day since I started…”

“…When I first started going to church as a 17-year-old, I thought being a disciple meant completing the six-week discipleship class my church held twice a year. And that's because the Hebrew word we translate as "disciple" in the Bible is "talmid" (n7n't pronounced "tal-meed"), which we usually translate as "student." But, as Rabbi Lubin taught me, while this word does mean "student, it can actually be translated as "apprentice"-someone who is being led to become just like their teacher. The translation of n7n't as student is correct, Rabbi Lubin told me, but the English concept of "student" doesn't quite cover the nuance of this important Hebrew word.” (Emphasis mine)

-Dave Adamson

A Jewish rabbit doesn’t just expect his disciples to listen to his words and teachings. He expects them to walk in his ways.

Let’s just ask this question. What if someone was here today and they said that they’d trust and follow Jesus if after looking into the lives of the Jesus followers in this room today they concluded he was a good rabbi.

How would your life help or hurt his decision?

It starts with this question:

How does worshipping Jesus Christ affect my daily life? I submit it does so in 5 ways (with some help from David Platt). Last week we covered the first one. Today we’ll cover 2-5.

Now, let’s review a phrase from last week that should ripple through this entire message: “Listen to him.” (God the Father)

Points 2-5 are what we would do if we “Listened to him.”

I. It transforms me from what I value to what Jesus Christ values. (17:1-13; cf. 16:23)

Why? Because we become what we behold.

    • Ex. My pursuit of Anita has transformed me over the years into a more mature person, a husband (we’re one), a father and a follower of Jesus Christ.

How? Through glad obedience.

II. It helps me suffer long. (17:14-21) Long-suffering = patience. Love is patient (1 Cor 13:4)

Why? Putting others first is hard but it’s what love does.

How? By the power of faith (prayer)

    • Rick Warren says he can tell a person’s faith by their prayers

    • This is the point Jesus wants to make (and why he’s frustrated). We either

      • Don’t believe God can do it, or

      • Don’t believe God will do it. (Or both)

      • God can do it. He is able. He is able to do more than we can ask or imagine in fact. So most of the time we’re asking for too little.

      • God cares about it. He may care about something else too (or more) so he answers in accordance with his perfect wisdom and will. But he cares.

III. It helps me surrender my life. (17:22)

Why? Because of his merciful example. Romans 5:8; 12:1

How? Buy the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2; 2 Tim 3:16-17

Jesus willingly surrendered his life for us. He did this because

    1. Of his love for his Father

    2. Of his love for us

Jesus knew where he was headed. This is the second time he predicts this to his disciples. They are so preoccupied with his death (because it means they’ll likely die too) that they miss the second part…his resurrection!

This should help me have this same perspective. If I know I’m going to die but not really there’s a freedom and peace in that. I’m willing to live life without fear of dying—and that’s freedom! I don’t care what other people think—just what God thinks.

IV. It helps me with my perspective. (17:23)

Why? It reminds me that Jesus Christ won at the cross.

How? By grace through faith.

Jesus also predicts his resurrection. While the 12 miss this every time he mentions it, it’s clear to us that he knew what was coming and was preparing for it along the way. (Prayers)

When I have this perspective that this isn’t all there is I’ll live with more freedom because I’ll be free from fear…fear of death, fear of failure, fear of rejection, etc.

V. It helps me live humbly and confidently. (17:24-27)

Why? Because I know who’s authority I have and live under already.

How? By forsaking/surrendering my rights in this world.

Jesus models humble contentment and submission to authorities for the sake of the mission.

Jesus models great faith. Think of all the miracles that have to happen for that coin to be in that fishes’ mouth.

Conclusion

Bottom line: Treasuring Christ transforms us when we “listen to him” as the Father commands.

Are you long-suffering with others? with your circumstances?

Are you living surrendered daily? Denying yourself and taking up your cross daily?

Are you living victoriously as if you really believed that the best is yet to come?

Are you living humbly and confidently?

Are you listening to him?

Let’s pray.

REFERENCES/BIBLIOGRAPHY

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“CSB Christ Chronological,” Holman

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible (ESVSB)

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How Does Worshiping Jesus Christ Affect My Daily Life? | Matthew 17:1-13

Series: All!

  • Jesus has all authority,

  • So that all nations

  • Might pledge all allegiance to him.

Scripture: Matthew 17:1-13

Cross references: Luke 9:31; 2 Cor 3:18; 4:4-6; Romans 5:8, 12:1-2; Malachi 4:1-6; 2 Tim 3:16-17

Title: “How does worshiping Jesus Christ affect my daily life?” (Darien Gabriel)

A lot of help came through David Platt’s commentary this week (see below)

Bottom line: Worshiping Jesus Christ affects my daily life by transforming your affections. This affects your daily decisions and the motivations behind them.

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. What hobbies, activities, and people do you spend most of your time with? How do these things affect your thinking and your behavior?

2. If we become like what we behold, then what does it look like to behold Christ today while He is not physically present?

3. List five attributes of Jesus Christ in Matthew 17.

4. How does this passage speak to the superiority of Jesus Christ over well-known Old Testament figures?

5. Describe the relationship between Elijah and John the Baptist in verses 9-13.

6. Does this passage speak to Jesus' divinity? Explain.

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. That we are transformed by what we treasure; we live our lives based on what we worship.

Q. Why?

A. Because you are changed by what you value—what you truly love. This drives your motivations and decisions.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Treasure Christ above all so that you’ll become more like Christ in character and competency.

Q. Why?

A. Because there is no better way to please God than to “Listen to him.”

INTRO

I am who I am today because of one key relationship—my wife, Anita. (We celebrated our 35 anniversary this month)

From the day I met her, my desire has been to be with, around and even like her.

Our friendship started in 9th grade. She snagged my heart that early. Overtime, as we’ve grown closer to God and each other, I’ve oriented my life around her (often in concern with Christ, but not always) and this has changed me into who I have become. And it’s still happening. I went from friend, to boyfriend to fiancée to husband to fellow parent and grandparent. I also went from a lost, self-centered, self-absorbed young man to a found, somewhat self-centered, somewhat self-absorbed older man. I have become what I beheld. What have I beheld? What have I set my affections on? Her. Jesus. And by God’s grace we’ve both moved up our marriage triangle towards Christ and, as a result, each other.

This is what it means that we become what we behold. We behold or become beholden to or set our affections on that which we value. The more we value it, the more of a hold it has on us. And the more the hold, the more it transforms us into it’s image. If that is godly, we become more like Christ. If it’s not, we become less like him.

This foundational to what the Lord is teaching us in Matthew 17 today.

It starts with this question:

How does worshipping Jesus Christ affect my daily life? I submit it does so in 5 ways (with some help from David Platt). Today we’ll focus just on the first one.

I. It transforms me from what I value to what Jesus Christ values. (17:1-13; cf. 16:23)

Why? Because we become what we behold.

    • Ex. My pursuit of Anita has transformed me over the years into a more mature person, a husband (we’re one), a father and a follower of Jesus Christ.

How? Through glad obedience.

II. It helps me suffer long. (17:14-21) Longo-suffering = patience. Love is patient (1 Cor 13:4)

Why? Putting others first is hard but it’s what love does.

How? By the power of faith (prayer)

    • Rick Warren says he can tell a person’s faith by their prayers

III. It helps me surrender my life. (17:22)

Why? Because of his merciful example. Romans 5:8; 12:1

How? Buy the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2; 2 Tim 3:16-17

IV. It helps me with my perspective. (17:23)

Why? It reminds me that Jesus Christ won at the cross.

How? By grace through faith.

V. It helps me live humbly and confidently. (17:24-27)

Why? Because I know who’s authority I have and live under already.

How? By forsaking/surrendering my rights in this world.

CONCLUSION

So my bottom line today is worshipping Jesus Christ affects my daily life by transforming my affections which affects my daily decisions my motivations behind them.

Who are you becoming?

What are you beholding?

What are you setting your affections on?

Anything less than Jesus Christ and his kingdom means you’re settling for something so inferior to what you could have. And you’ll never become who God created you to be until you get this right.

My prayer for you today is that you’ll repent of pursuing any and everything in your life that doesn’t deserve your affections and reorient your life around your merciful Creator and Savior.

Let’s pray.

Bottom line: Worshiping Jesus Christ affects my daily life by transforming your affections. This affects your daily decisions and the motivations behind them.

“17:1-9 The transfiguration was:

(1) a revelation of the glory of the Son of God, a glory hidden now but to be fully revealed when he returns; (2) a confirmation of the difficult teaching given to the disciples at Caesarea Philippi

(16:13-20); and

(3) a beneficial experience for the disciples, who were discouraged after having been reminded so recently of Jesus' impending suffering and death (16:21). See notes on Mk 9:2-7; Lk 9:28-35.” NIV Study Bible

“Transfigured is a weak word, but perhaps it is the best available English word to translate the Greek word Matthew uses here, which is the passive form of the verb metamorphoō. The verb literally means “a change of form.” It comes over into the English language as the word metamorphosis. We use it to describe the amazing transformation of a caterpillar into a butterfly. But transfiguration includes the prefix trans-, which means “across.” What was crossed in the transfiguration? We might say Jesus crossed the line from the natural to the supernatural, from the human to the divine, as the cloak of humanity that veiled His true glory was removed and His glory became visible.” —RC Sproul

Excerpt From

Matthew - An Expositional Commentary

R.C. Sproul

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…On the other hand, if you follow Jesus and surrender your life to him, you find the very purpose of life. The words of Jesus are extraordinarily powerful. There has never been a time when it is more important to ‘listen to him’ than now!

Jesus took Peter, James and John up a high mountain. Jesus’ appearance changed right before their eyes. ‘Sunlight poured from his face. His clothes were filled with light. Then they realised that Moses and Elijah were also there in deep conversation with him’ (17:1–3, MSG). They heard God say, ‘This is my Son, marked by my love, focus of my delight. Listen to him’ (v.5, MSG).

As Moses and Elijah talked with Jesus, so you too can live a life ‘talking with Jesus’. Your experience may not be as visual or auditory as that of the disciples on the Mount of Transfiguration, but you too can know the presence of Jesus in your life. Through reading his words and meditating on them, you can experience a conversation with Jesus through the Holy Spirit.

You can, in a sense, look into his face, which shines ‘like the sun’ (v.2). You can fall down in worship (v.6). It can feel as if Jesus is actually touching you and saying to you ‘do not be afraid’ (v.7). And there are times when you may look up and see ‘no one except Jesus’ (v.8).

Lord, thank you that when I lose my life for you, I find it. Help me to *listen* to your voice and to follow you, daily.

SECTION OUTLINE SIXTEEN (MATTHEW 17)

God confirms Peter's earlier acknowledgment of the deity of Christ by transfiguring Jesus on the mountaintop. Jesus heals a demon-possessed boy, predicts his own death, and instructs Peter to pay the Temple tax with a coin found in the mouth of a fish.

I. THE SPLENDOR OF THE SAVIOR (17:1-13)

A. The confirmation on top of the mountain (17:1-8): Jesus takes Peter, James, and John with him.

1. What they see (17:1-3)

a. The appearance of God's Messiah (17:1-2): His face and clothing shine like the noonday sun!

b. The arrival of God's messengers (17:3): Moses and Elijah appear and speak to Jesus.

2. What they say (17:4): Peter wants to build three shelters, one each for Jesus, Moses, and Elijah.

3. What they hear (17:5): The Father speaks from heaven, attesting to the love he has for his Son.

4. What they do (17:6-8): They fall to the ground, terrified, but are reassured by Jesus.

B. The conversation coming down the mountain (17:9-13)

1. The command (17:9): Jesus instructs the three to say nothing concerning what they saw until his resurrection.

2. The confusion (17:10): They want to know if Elijah will come before the return of the Messiah.

3. The clarification (17:11-13)

a. His answer (17:11-12)

(1) Elijah will indeed come (17:11).

(2) Elijah has already come (17:12).

b. Their assumption (17:13): By this they understand that he is referring to John the Baptist.

II. THE SOVEREIGNTY OF THE SAVIOR (17:14-21, 24-27): Jesus demonstrates his deity through two miracles.

A. The boy with a demon (17:14-21)

1. The desperation of the father (17:14-16): He begs Jesus to heal his son.

2. The exorcism by the Lord (17:17-18: Jesus quickly drives the demon from the lad.

3. The frustration of the disciples (17:19-21)

a. They say, "Why couldn't we cast out that demon?" (17:19).

b. He says, "You didn't have enough faith" (17:21).

B. The fish with a coin (17:24-27)

1. The who (17:24b): Some tax collectors approach Peter.

2. The what (17:24c): They demand to know if Jesus will pay the Temple tax.

3. The where (17:24a): This takes place upon Jesus' arrival in Capernaum.

4. The why (17:25-26): Jesus informs Peter of two things.

a. Why he should not have to pay this tax (17:25): Kings tax the conquered, not their own people.

b. Why he should pay the tax anyway (17:26): Though he is free, he should try not to offend anyone.

5. The how (17:27): Jesus tells Peter to throw a line in the lake, open the mouth of the first fish he catches, and use the coin he will find there to pay the tax!

III. THE SUFFERING OF THE SAVIOR (17:22-23)

A. His revelation (17:22-23a): He tells the disciples of his coming betrayal, death, and resurrection.   

B. Their reaction (17:23b): The disciples are filled with grief.

References/Bibliography:

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“CSB Christ Chronological,” Holman

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible

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Who Do You Say I Am? | Matthew 16:13-28

“Who Do You say I Am”?

Matthew 16:13-28

Peter Declares That Jesus Is the Messiah

13  When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say the

Son of Man is?”

14  They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the

prophets.”

15  “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?”

16  Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.”

17  Jesus replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and

blood, but by my Father in heaven.  18  And I tell you that you are Peter, [ a ]  and on this rock I will build my

church, and the gates of Hades [b]  will not overcome it.  19  I will give you the keys of the kingdom of

heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be [c]  bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will

be [d]  loosed in heaven.”  20  Then he ordered his disciples not to tell anyone that he was the Messiah.

Jesus Predicts His Death

21  From that time on Jesus began to explain to his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many

things at the hands of the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law, and that he must be

killed and on the third day be raised to life.

22  Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him. “Never, Lord!” he said. “This shall never happen to

you!”

23  Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not

have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.”

24  Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up

their cross and follow me.  25  For whoever wants to save their life [e]  will lose it, but whoever loses their life

for me will find it.  26  What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or

what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?  27  For the Son of Man is going to come in his Father’s

glory with his angels, and then he will reward each person according to what they have done.

28  “Truly I tell you, some who are standing here will not taste death before they see the Son of Man

coming in his kingdom.”

13 “Who do people say the Son of Man is?” 14  They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah;

and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.”

-John the Baptist, Elijah, Jeramiah, or one of the prophets back from the dead. A good man or

Godly man, but not God Himself

- There’s irony in that they were closer to believing that He was a prophet raised from the dead,

than the Savior who would actually be raised from the dead

- There were a lot of people in the first century who would have said they believed in

Jesus – that He was a prophet or a good man

- There are a lot of people in the 21 st century who would say the same thing

- approx.. 85% of Americans believe that Jesus was a real historical figure –

-52% of Americans think Jesus was a great teacher

-They didn’t say “the Messiah”, and many don’t now.

CS Lewis: liar, lunatic or Lord

l am trying here to prevent anyone saying the really foolish thing that people often say about

Him: I&#39;m ready to accept Jesus as a great moral teacher, but I don&#39;t accept his claim to be God.

That is the one thing we must not say.

A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral

teacher. He would either be a lunatic-on the level with the man who says he is a poached egg-or

else he would be the Devil of Hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the

Son of God, or else a madman or something worse. You can shut him up for a fool, you can spit

at him and kill him as a demon or you can fall at his feet and call him Lord and God, but let us not

come with any patronising nonsense about his being a great human teacher. He has not left that

open to us. He did not intend to. ... Now it seems to me obvious that He was neither a lunatic nor

a fiend: and consequently, however strange or terrifying or unlikely it may seem, I have to accept

the view that He was and is God. (Mere Christianity, 55-56)

15  “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?”

- “you” here is plural, directed at the apostles

- Everything now and for eternity hinges on your answer

16  Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.”

- This is the first time we see the apostles confess who Jesus is

- Who you say Jesus is determines everything about how you follow Him.

- If you believe He’s a good teacher, that’s how you follow Him. If you think He has some

good ideas, you’ll listen to Him once in a while

- If you believe He’s the Savior, that should change everything about how you live your

life.

- 17  Jesus replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and

blood, but by my Father in heaven. 

- Divine revelation rather than human deduction

- The grace of God is the only way anyone can behold the beauty AND PURPOSE of Christ

John 6:44-45

““No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them, and I will raise them up at the

last day. It is written in the Prophets: ‘They will all be taught by God.’ Everyone who has heard the

Father and learned from him comes to me.”

-A Biblical argument can be made that the only way we will know Jesus for who He truly is, is ONLY

through the revelation of God our Father…but God reveals it to others through our evangelism.

-In fact, the only reason why we are together as a family is because God our Father made it so.

18  And I tell you that you are Peter, [ a ]  and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades [b]  will

not overcome it. 

- “You are Peter” (Petros = rock) - this parallels Peter’s confession

- First use of the word “church” or “ekklesia” in the gospels

- Jesus isn’t implying anything of a particular church structure, just promising that he will establish a

gathered community of his followers, and help them grow. – a community of people who submit to

Gods Kingly rule.

Jesus promises the indestructibility of His church.

- Gates of Hades, sometimes referred to the gates of hell – probably the powers of death.

- Gates are largely defensive, so if you consider the gates of hell, or the powers of death on the

defense, that means those gates cannot withstand the power over death that Jesus instills in the

church.

- This passage may not be about protecting the church from the gates of hell (and death)…Hell is on the

defensive…not us! Jesus is saying the gates of hell, death itself cannot withstand His power through the

church. The church needs to be storming the gates of hell, not sitting in our cozy buildings waiting for it

to come to us. Either way, death is defeated…

- We overcome death – we don’t have to defend against it’s power

- Death cannot stop this Messiah, nor His followers – Christ gives His authority to the church

- Being a part of a church is not like joining a club –it comes with an extremely important confession with

eternal ramifications.

- All too often in the US, joining a church looks more like joining a country club these

days.

- multi-million dollar facilities with racquetball courts, gyms, recreational

facilities, bookstores and sometimes a place to gather and worship. Even then,

the logos, jerseys, bumper stickers, Sunday concerts and worship albums help to

build membership, but may not build God’s kingdom.

- WHAT YOU WIN THEM WITH, IS WHAT YOU WIN THEM TO.

-we have to be careful not to do to the church what the Jews did to the temple.

19  I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be [c]  bound in

heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be [d]  loosed in heaven.”  20  Then he ordered his disciples not

to tell anyone that he was the Messiah.

- I grew up Roman Catholic, and the Catholic church uses this passage to justify Peter as the first

Pope, and through apostolic succession, confessing sins to priests in confessionals. As they forgive, they

loose on earth…but….

- this is not about the authority of Peter, but the authority of Jesus Christ

- this is not about a supreme pope, but a sovereign Savior

- this is not about an infallible pope, but an invincible mission

There is imagery of keys that close and open, lock and unlock (Isaiah 22:22) and take the binding and

loosing referring to Christians making entrance to Gods kingdom available or unavailable to people

through their witness, preaching and ministry. This will tie in closely with John 20:23

When Peter or the other apostles, or any follower of Christ for the matter, proclaims the gospel, it is

done under Jesus&#39; authority-His authority to save sinners and to judge sinners. Jesus&#39; authority to save

means that we can say to any person in the world, &quot;If you turn from your sin and trust in Jesus as Savior

and Lord, you will be free from sin forever&#39; That&#39;s a guarantee based on the authority of Christ and His

Word. At the same time, we can also say to any person in this world, &quot;If you do not tum from your sin

and trust in Jesus as Savior and Lord, you are bound to your sin and its payment for all eternity in hell.&quot;

Authority has been entrusted to us as the church to proclaim this message.

We speak with the authority of Christ. The urgency and priority of evangelism flows from these truths

21  From that time on Jesus began to explain to his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many

things at the hands of the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law, and that he must be

killed and on the third day be raised to life.

-Jesus speaks plainly of His coming fate - anticipating that he may be killed does not require any

supernatural insight…Matthew 12:14

“But the Pharisees went out and plotted how they might kill Jesus.”

But, more than common sense must lie behind the prediction of His resurrection.

Elders - not previously mentioned - members of the Sanhedrin

“Chief priests and scribes” - teachers of the law

Jesus doesn’t explain here the use of the word “must”, but accounts for it in Matthew 20:28

28  just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a

ransom for many.”

22  Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him. “Never, Lord!” he said. “This shall never happen to

you!”

-Peter does not recognize that Jesus’ death and resurrection must precede the establishment of the

church and that His followers must also suffer before Gods kingdom will triumph.

-Peter has not yet conceived of a suffering Messiah

-Peters is emphatic…basically “no way”, “this shall never happen”!!

-Trying to thwart God’s plan for Jesus life is, in fact, the role of the devil, not a disciple…hence Jesus’

reply.

23  Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not

have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.”

-He’s not saying Peter is the devil or possessed, but dramatically stating that the perspective Peter

represents here, however unwittingly, is the same as Satan’s.

-Peter moves very fast from foundation block to stumbling block

-Peter represents the viewpoint of unredeemed humanity, rather than God’s will.

-Get behind me means get away, or out of my site…similar to his rebuke of satan in Matthew 4:10

Where a similar temptation was aimed at Jesus in the desert:

“Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him

only.’””

- “Take up his cross” is metaphorical - submission to God’s will, wherever it may lead = deny himself. It

also represents an ominous possibility that some of the disciples might literally be crucified.

-Self-denial means putting God and His kingdom priorities first.

-This is so counter cultural to life in America

 you deserve a break today

 Get the pampering you deserve

 You deserve only the best

The pursuit of happiness is a constitutional right, not a biblical right

Do you know what we truly deserve? Death

Romans 6:23

“For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Any preacher who tells you that you deserve anything better than death…you know, your best life now,

is a wolf in sheep’s clothing and does not have your eternal soul in mind…run

This is how we find life.

Galatians 2:19-20

““For through the law I died to the law so that I might live for God. I have been crucified with Christ and I

no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who

loved me and gave himself for me.”

The logic of Jesus’ command depends wholly on the existence of life beyond the grace

Live for yourself and you will die. Die to yourself and you will live.

27  For the Son of Man is going to come in his Father’s glory with his angels, and then he will reward each

person according to what they have done.

-Glory awaits ahead, but only after suffering

-“What he has done” is more literally like “his practice” and refers to an individual life viewed in its

entirety

28  “Truly I tell you, some who are standing here will not taste death before they see the Son of Man

coming in his kingdom.”

Verse 28 is kind of cryptic but is probably referring to the transfiguration, which is coming up next . The

transfiguration will be a foretaste of his resurrection.

2 Peter 1:16-18 (Peter later referring to the transfiguration)

“For we did not follow cleverly devised stories when we told you about the coming of our Lord Jesus

Christ in power, but we were eyewitnesses of his majesty. He received honor and glory from God the

Father when the voice came to him from the Majestic Glory, saying, “This is my Son, whom I love; with

him I am well pleased.” We ourselves heard this voice that came from heaven when we were with him

on the sacred mountain.”

-Regarding suffering having to precede glory is a tough one for Christians today, especially in the US,

where prosperity preaching contradicts the teachings and life of Jesus.

-Have you died to yourself?

-Have you taken up your cross?

James 1:27

“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in

their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”

James 1:27 NIV

Romans 12:1-2

“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living

sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern

of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and

approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

Romans 12:1-2 NIV

Matthew 25:31-46 NIV

““When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne.

All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a

shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his

left. “Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your

inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you

gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you

invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison

and you came to visit me.’ “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and

feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in,

or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ “The King

will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine,

you did for me.’ “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the

eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was

thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes

and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’ “They also will

answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in

prison, and did not help you?’ “He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the

least of these, you did not do for me.’ “Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous

to eternal life.””

“Who Do You Say I Am”? - Verses for slides

Matthew 16:13-28

Mathew 16: 13-14

Matthew 16:15

Matthew 16:16

Matthew 16:17

John 6:44-45

Matthew 16:18

James 1:27

Matthew 16:19-20

Matthew 16:21

Matthew 12:14

Matthew 20:28

Matthew 16:22

Matthew 16:23

Matthew 4:10

Matthew 16:24-26

Romans 6:23

James 1:27

Romans 12:1-2

Matthew 25:31-46

Galatians 2:19-20

Matthew 16:27

Matthew 16:28

2 Peter 2:16-18

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How to Avoid Making Bad Bread | Matthew 16:1-12

Series: All!

Scripture: Matthew 16:1-12

Title: “How to Avoid Making Bad Bread” (Mikey Brannon)

Bottom line: We avoid making bad bread by remembering that God can, God cares and therefore by heading his warnings.

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. How does self-righteousness blind us to Christ?

2. If Jesus performed signs in His ministry, why was it wrong for the Pharisees and Sadducees to request signs?

3. How is self-denial different from works-righteousness?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast

Q. What do I want you to know?

A. Jesus invites you to come and feast with him and his family by grace through faith.

Q. Why?

A. To empower us to save, satisfy and serve all peoples of all nations.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Accept his invitation by faith.

Q. Why?

A. So that you’ll be propelled to save, satisfy and serve your neighbors.

Mikey’s notes

JANUARY 22, 2023

Bad Bread

Grace Christian Fellowship

FALLEN CONDITION FOCUS

Because our flesh weak, we are susceptible to influences that can corrupt our beliefs and our discipleship.

 

INTRODUCTION

Please turn in your Bible to Matthew 16:1-12. It is an honor to be up here this morning. Thanks to Darien, and to such a gracious and loving church family to allow me to share with you this week.

Let us just have a word of prayer.

When Brooke and I were just married, we were in college, and we lived in a manufactured home in North Alabama. And back then we were young and all I can remember is we could sleep for days back then. There were no kids to wake us up, and on Saturday morning after we had worked all week in the day, and went to school at night when Saturday rolled around we would just sleep until lunchtime.

But on this Saturday there was a bout of severe tornadoes that were working their way through our town. And we rented the “land” our house was on from an elderly couple across the street. Very sweet people, they had a house with a foundation, and they even had a storm cellar that they always said we were welcome to use. And on that morning, all the weather radios were blaring in the town, and the sirens on top of the water tower were blaring. And the TV was flashing red because guess what there was, a Tornado warning. All morning long, just tornado after tornado. And guess what Brooke and I were doing. Yep, sleeping. Not a care in the world. And across the street that elderly couple who could see our house from the cellar they were in were just worried sick, because we were not heading any of the… warnings.

We are familiar with warnings in our day and age. We get them all the time. You may see a tornado warning, hurricane warning, you may get a warning from you car regarding your engine temperature or something like that. But what we really don’t expect to see is a warning about bread. Today I want to talk to you about just such a warning that Jesus gave his disciples after an encounter with his disciples.

I. The Unreachable Moment

We know from Chapter 15 that Jesus is on the West side of the Sea of Galilee in a place called Magadan. And when they arrive they approached by 2 groups of people.

[Mat 16:1 ESV] 1 And the Pharisees and Sadducees came, and to test him they asked him to show them a sign from heaven.

Pharisees and Sadducees came

At first glance this may remind you of what we saw back Matthew 12:38. In fact, Jesus is going to give this group the same answer that he gave those guys. But there is something different here. We now have not scribes, but Sadducees.

We know the Pharisees right. They were the keepers of the law. They were religious leaders who made sure everybody was following the rules. They would be considered the “right wing” of the Jewish religion. These legalist as we have discussed “added to Scripture” all sorts of rules and regulations.

The Sadducees were sort of like the Jewish elite. They were the upper class, and generally worked in the care of the temple (corruption) and held positions like high priest or chief priest. They had very different beliefs than the Pharisees. For instance they really didn’t believe in anything supernatural. They didn’t believe in miracles. They didn’t believe in resurrection. They sort of spiritualized all of scripture so that it was basically just meaningless. They took away from Scripture because they only believed in the first 5 books of the Bible.

So one group of Scripture adders, another group of Scripture subtractors. These 2 groups did not get along very well at all. But they are united in our text today in their hatred toward Jesus, and their commitment to try to expose him as a fraud.

 

test him they asked him to show them a sign from heaven.

The motivation for this request is evil. We have seen already that Jesus has produced numerous undeniable miracles. In fact if you recall in Matthew 12:24, that when Jesus cleansed a demon-oppressed man they said that the miracle was in fact performed was performed by the power of Satan. So we know that even when faced with overwhelming evidence of Jesus’ deity they will not believe. They are spiritually blind and spiritually dead.

In Matthew 12 they asked for a “sign”, but here they as for something more, they ask for a “sign from heaven”. Bible scholars tell us that some in this day had the belief that Satan could do a miracle on the ground, but only God could do a miracle in the sky or in the heavens. So they want something grand.

 

Now don’t miss this. They are looking for a sign from heaven, when THE sign from heaven is standing in front of them

[Luk 2:34 NIV] 34 Then Simeon blessed them and said to Mary, his mother: "This child is destined to cause the falling and rising of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be spoken against,

And now we see from Luke that in denying him as a sign from heaven fulfills the words and fulfills this prophecy from Simeon so many years ago.

II. They Lack Vision to See

[Mat 16:2-3 ESV] 2 He answered them, "When it is evening, you say, 'It will be fair weather, for the sky is red.'

3 And in the morning, 'It will be stormy today, for the sky is red and threatening.' You know how to interpret the appearance of the sky, but you cannot interpret the signs of the times.

As you might expect, Jesus does not grant the request to perform a sign for the Pharisees and Sadducees. Instead he draws their attention to their Spiritual Blindness.

This saying that we read Jesus saying is one that you are likely familiar with even today. “Red sky at night, sailors delight, red sky in the morning sailors warning.” The saying can even be traced back to shepherds in this day who applied the saying to their occupation in a similar way.

I think its first of all kind of funny. In a way, Jesus says, you are better meteorologist than you are theologians. The problem is that they were supposed to be experts on theology not on weather, but Jesus says your theology is so bad, perhaps you should stick to being a weather man.

I suspect that Jesus has something in mind when he makes this statement. In order for them to discern the weather, they had to utilize one of their five senses right. We see in verse three the word “red”. In order for them to discern what the weather would be they needed to be able to SEE the sky.

[Mat 15:14 ESV] 14 Let them alone; they are blind guides. And if the blind lead the blind, both will fall into a pit."

I think Jesus is pointing out that they have the vision to see the physical world, but when it comes to His Kingdom, when it comes to Him, they may as well not even have eyeballs in their head. They are completely and totally Spiritually blind.

This is the condition of man as he enters the world. It was the condition of his disciple even at one point. It is likely the condition of somebody here today. Spiritual things are not just dim, or hard to understand, but they are invisible. Unless the Holy Spirit brings about conviction, and illuminates the gospel there is no hope to see the Kingdom.

4 An evil and adulterous generation seeks for a sign, but no sign will be given to it except the sign of Jonah." So he left them and departed.

It wasn’t very long ago I was riding in my car, and a long time I used to listen to the radio, but I don’t know if people still do that. I usually have my phone and I listen to podcasts. And it was a particularly popular podcast, completely secular, and the subject came up about God. And the guest was sort of half-heartedly advocating for the existence of God, but the host wouldn’t have any part of it. And at the conclusion of the conversation the host said, “why won’t God just do one big miracle and make it so obvious that there is no debate.”

“Evil and adulterous generation”, we have God’s full revelation of Scripture. We have the biggest miracle that we could ever hope for in the resurrection of Jesus, and we have the nerve to ask God to do something else? It’s pure evil.

Jesus along those lines, answers as he did back in chapter 12, “no sign will be given except the sign of Jonah.”

The Old Testament is full of what theologians call Christ types. And this term is used to acknowledge someone who in the OT that is meant to forshadow the work and person of Jesus Christ. I don’t have time to go through them, but there are many Christ types in the Old Testament. One of those Christ types is Jonah. Now obviously Jonah had his issues, but that’s not the point. As we read his story we get a picture of Christ. Christ would be sent to bring salvation to his people. Johan would be sent to save the people of Nineveh. Jesus would be crucified put in the ground for three days and then live again. Jonah would spend 3 days in the belly of a fish, and then appear on dry land again to do God’s work.

Now think about what Jesus is saying about Jonah and the people of Nineveh. The Ninevites have a long history of idolatry and wickedness. It is not the place you want to go on mission. There are some bad, wicked people in Nineveh.

[Jon 1:1-2 ESV] 1 Now the word of the LORD came to Jonah the son of Amittai, saying, 2 "Arise, go to Nineveh, that great city, and call out against it, for their evil has come up before me."

So we have Jonah, who is just a shadow of Christ. Flawed and sinful, and here he is, sent to the absolutely depraved place. And guess what happened. With just a shadow of Christ, they were broken to the core. They covered themselves in sackcloth and ashes. The fasted in brokenness for their own sin. All in faith that God would turn from his wrath and save them.

Now there is a picture of repentance. So often we (the church) are guilty of watering down what repentance really looks like. True brokenness for sin. It’s so much more than, “I’m sorry God”. It’s starts there, but it goes further into physical action of turning from sin. Does our rebellion from God break us the way it broke the Ninevites?

And so Jesus looks at the Pharisees and the Sadducees and he says you want a sign, just look at Jonah. They didn’t have God the Son incarnate standing in front of them. They didn’t have the countless miracles that you have heard and seen performed in front of you. They didn’t have the Son of Man teaching in their synagogue. All they had was, Jonah, a shadow. The shadow of the one who stands 2 feet in front of your face, and yet you are too blind to see the light.

III. The Teachable Moment

[Mat 16:5 ESV] 5 When the disciples reached the other side, they had forgotten to bring any bread.

In verse 5 we get a change in setting. No longer are we in Magadan in the heated exchange, but now across the Sea of Galilee we move. And I can just picture the disciple begin row the boat out to sea. It’s been a long day, and they realize they don’t have any bread.

Now listen, for those of us who do road trips, we can identify. Brooke is always good when we head off on a long road trip to pack snacks, and let me tell you if I don’t have some snacks you don’t want to be around me. It’s not pretty.

Where they land on the North Eastern side of the SOG, there is likely no place for them to buy bread. And if I’m honest, and I was in that boat, listen, I would be the guy who was like. There are no bread stores here. What are we going  to do?

So Jesus recognizes the nutritional unrest that has ensued among his disciples and he uses that as a launching point to what he wants them to hear. As those of us who disciple others, whether it’s in a group or our family or our friends we should follow Jesus’ model here and always be looking for teachable moments like this.

You see Jesus’ mind is still on what happened back west, and the danger that is hidden in what has just transpired with those Pharisees and Sadducees and he issues a warning.

[Mat 16:6 ESV] 6 Jesus said to them, "Watch and beware of the leaven of the Pharisees and Sadducees."

This is where we get the warning “beware”. This is a warning from Jesus that there is danger lurking, but the danger comes from somewhere that they don’t immediately understand. Jesus says watch out for the “leaven” of the P & S.

When Jesus talks ab out leaven what is he talking about. Leaven was used in those days like yeast. Something that was used to make bread rise from something flat to something full. They used a process where they had a “starter” for the bread. And that starter contained the leaven that was required to make the bread rise.

As many times we saw when Jesus would use figurative speech to illustrate a point the disciples weren’t the quickest to catch on to the meaning. I can remember when I was taking High School literature, and we would read an abstract poem that had some deeper meaning often times the teach would ask the class to write a paper about what the poem meant. Usually this meant I was in trouble. I am a very literal person, that’s why I became an engineer and not a poet.

But Jesus like a good teacher, is patient with his pupils.

[Mat 16:7-8 ESV] 7 And they began discussing it among themselves, saying, "We brought no bread." 8 But Jesus, aware of this, said, "O you of little faith, why are you discussing among yourselves the fact that you have no bread?

 

Now this is where some of you skinny people start getting real spiritual and say those guys are thick head. But I promise you, I know if I had been in that boat I would have been saying the same thing as the disciples. Wait, Jesus is the bread bad or what, we don’t even have bread! We are so hungry.

But Jesus put’s his finger directly on what the real issue. What is the real reason that they don’t see his point. Not hunger. It’s not their thickheadedness or anything else, it is faith! They don’t have faith. And Jesus reminds them of some things that he had done.

[Mat 16:9-10 ESV] 9 Do you not yet perceive? Do you not remember the five loaves for the five thousand, and how many baskets you gathered? 10 Or the seven loaves for the four thousand, and how many baskets you gathered?

There is a powerful connection that Jesus makes between the current situation, and where they have been. It’s so easy for us to say, they should remember that Jesus can make bread. He has demonstrated to them 2 times that he has the power to make food. But in this moment is their faith has failed them. The don’t remember.

How many times are our eyes so blinded by our current situation that we don’t remember the one who has us in his grip? When the trials of life that we all face come and grab us and shake us up sometimes our first instinct is to exactly what these disciple do. We begin to worry. We begin to talk among ourselves, woe is me I don’t have what I need.

Sometimes our faith can fail us in these moments. We forget the one who sits in the boat with us too. We get so focused on our day to day that we forget the sovereign God of the universe promises us that every detail of our life is in his control. Not only is capable of helping, he is willing.

And I think now he has their attention. They are ready for the bigger picture, so he repeats it again.

[Mat 16:11 ESV] 11 How is it that you fail to understand that I did not speak about bread? Beware of the leaven of the Pharisees and Sadducees."

So we know what leaven is now, but let’s go a little deeper into that thought. I was thinking about this. Jesus could have used any word he wanted. He could have said something like this “Beware of the poison of the Pharisees and Sadducees.” But he didn’t say that. Why do you think that is?

We all know what poison looks like right? You’ve seen it on the cartoons. It comes in a dark brown bottle and what is on the outside of the jar? Right it has a skull and cross-bones and it plainly says right there on the jar “poison”. But leaven is not like that is it?

You see we all love bread. We need bread to eat. And bread is a good thing to eat! But there is something hidden in that bread. A very small amount of leaven was put into that bread. And that tiny amount of leaven has had a huge impact on how that bread turned out.

Jesus is warning his disciple to be very careful that they don’t let something like this leaven of the Pharisees creep into the gospel that he is teaching them. It only takes a small amount, and you may mistake it for something good, and before you know it, it creeps and destroys.

It doesn’t just destroy one loaf of bread, because that starter that was used to make the bad bread, guess what the baker does tomorrow. It gets a new batch of starter and he makes bad bread after bad bread after bad bread. Sound familiar? Have you seen that happen?

That is why Jesus is so right when he says beware!

[Mat 16:12 ESV] 12 Then they understood that he did not tell them to beware of the leaven of bread, but of the teaching of the Pharisees and Sadducees.

At the beginning of verse 12, I love this phrase, “then they understood”. Isn’t that wonderful. Jesus is a persistent teacher. He has patience with his students. He sees this teachable moment and walks them right up to the point that they UNDERSTAND. This is every disciple makers dream come true.

What is the leaven? It’s given to us right there in verse 12. Jesus says it is the “teaching of the Pharisees and Sadducees”. And his warning is, if you are not very careful this bad doctrine can sneak into you. It can sneak into your teaching, into your preaching, into your life. And if you’re not vigilant, your bread can be ruined, and you can multiply that bad bread further than any of us care to think of.

So real quickly as we close I want to give you just a brief summary

 

How to avoid making bad bread

1) In difficult circumstances remember that we have a loving Savior who has the ability and the desire to care for our needs. Matthew 16:9-10

2) When your faith is weak, REMEMBER what God has done for others. Mathew 16:9-10 & Hebrews 11

3) When your faith is weak, REMEMBER what God has done for you. Hebrews 12:1-2

4) Guard yourself against bad doctrine, for your sake and for the sake of others. Psalm 1

References/Bibliography:

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“CSB Christ Chronological,” Holman

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible

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Are You at the Table with Jesus? | Matthew 15:21-39

Series: All!

Scripture: Matthew 15:21-39

Title: “Are you at the table with Jesus?” (Darien Gabriel)

Heavily relied on David Platt, Kenneth Bailey, and Sean O’Donnell. (See below)

Bottom line: Jesus’ beloved are those who respond to his invitation to feast with him by grace through faith.

Just as the Father sent Jesus to save, satisfy and serve, Jesus sends us to do the same. To multiply disciple-makers around the corner and around the world.

Jesus invited everyone to his family feast. You get in by faith. You’re invited. Are you going? It’s not just a one and done decision. It’s a daily, count-the-cost decision that leads to walking with (or without) God. That looks like being sent by Jesus to save, satisfy and serve our neighbors.

Discussion questions for group and personal study.

Reflect and Discuss

1. Like this Gentile Canaanite woman, what unlikely converts has God placed around you?

2. How have you doubted God's power and mercy in relation to such people?

3. How does Jesus' interaction with this Canaanite woman and His feeding of the Gentile crowd help forecast the Great Commission in Matthew 28:18-20?

Final Questions (optional or in place of above)

  • What is God saying to you right now?

  • What are you going to do about it?

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Q. What do I want you to know?

A. Jesus invites you to come and feast with him and his family by grace through faith.

Q. Why?

A. To empower us to save, satisfy and serve all peoples of all nations.

Q. What do I want you to do?

A. Accept his invitation by faith.

Q. Why?

A. So that you’ll be propelled to save, satisfy and serve your neighbors.

INTRO

Our kitchen table is sacred ground in our house to Anita and I. It’s where we’ve shared over 2,100 meals with our family of six plus for over 30 years. Sitting at the head of that table might be my favorite place in the house…maybe in the world.

Why? Because from there, when they are all in our house together, along with their growing families, I can see and speak to our closest family members. It is there where for a few seconds before we dive into our latest feast that I can pray another blessing over them and say an encouraging word to them. For a brief moment I have their undivided attention and I can remind them that they are our beloved.

Do you feel like Jesus’ beloved today?

In Rev 3:20, Jesus asks to come in and sit at our table. And while he’s there he will remind us that we’re his beloved and bless us.

Our Lord uses a similar metaphor in an unlikely place here today. He’s outside of Israel giving his 12 a peak at the future of his kingdom.

Today I want to answer 2 questions:

  1. Who’s invited to sit at the table of the Lord?

  2. How do you get there?

The final question I’ll have for you is: will you join him at his table today?

CONTEXT

Jesus and his disciples leave Israeli territory and go to Gentile territory. First, they go to Tyre and Sidon (modern day Lebanon). Next, they go to the decapolis (a region east of Judea made up of 10 Gentile cities). This marks the last time Jesus will do ministry in the Galilean region as his remaining ministry will happen in Judea and especially in Jerusalem. It is also the only season he will enter Gentile territory.

The religious leaders make a trip to where Jesus and his disciples are ministering to continue to confront him with the hopes of exposing him and condemning him.

Notice that this is in the wake of some pretty amazing miracles and teachings. He’s fed over 5,000 men plus women and children with a few loaves and fish. He’s walked on water across the Sea of Galilee. He continues to heal all who come to him including just by walking by them and they reaching out to touch his cloak. He’s gaining immense popularity as a result. He’s being seen as a Messiah if not THE Messiah by the populace. Even Canaanite women knows about him and that he’s the Messiah. As a result, the religious leaders are getting desperate. A leader like this will disrupt the status quo with Rome. And this means the loss of influence and affluence for the religious leaders of Israel.

All of this challenges the Disciples and their prejudices against Gentiles. Jesus takes them to Gentile (unclean) territory (after his lesson on what is unclean comes from your heart not from what you eat) and immediately blesses a Gentile (Canaanite = enemy; woman = less than a man) and her daughter. He then blesses thousands of Gentiles (through his D’s) just like he did the Jews earlier. This would help them to see that his vision is for more than Israel—it’s for the whole world!

2 Themes. 2 Miracles.

I. Who’s invited to the family feast? Everyone. (21-28)

A. Jesus takes them to Gentile territory. Not sure why but he isn’t getting away from being known and sought after.

B. Canaanite woman.

    1. Strike 1–Canaanite. Ancient enemy of Israel.

    2. Strike 2–Woman. Less than a man in the eyes of men in that day.

    3. Strike 3–Gentile. A dog.

C. Model of faith.

    1. Desperate. “Crying out” Her daughter “is demon-possessed and suffering terribly.” I can’t imagine being demon possessed. But she makes it sound like this is worse than normal possessions.

    2. Humble, respectful. Even if just being respectful, called him Lord.

    3. Messiah. She uses the title for Messiah, “Son of David.”

D. Jesus’ & Disciples’ reactions

    1. Jesus is silent.

    2. Disciples are not interested in helping. (Everyone is exhausted and hungry) 3 Days.

    3. Jesus replies with a discouraging word. But truth.

    4. She doesn’t disagree. In fact, she kneels and prays profoundly, “Lord, help me!”

    5. Jesus again appears to discourage her. (More likely testing) Explains it’s not right to take what is for God’s people and give to those who are his enemies. Calls her a dog. A “little dog” like a pet, not a rabid dog. But still a dog.

    6. She doesn’t flinch but does disagree. Points out that it’s appropriate for people to get this crumbs. She may not be the kids at the table but there’s room for the pet dog to get some. She understands and therefore knows what’s available for her. Great faith!

    7. What a contrast to the faith (or lack) of the religious leaders (none) and the 12 (little).

    8. Why did Jesus ignore, refuse, rebuke and then bless her? 2 possibilities:

      1. To test her

      2. She approached Jesus as a Jew (Son of David). Later she calls him Lord which is more universal. She doesn’t have to become a Jew first. (Wiersbe)

    9. Jesus applauds her amazing faith. Only 2 people get this accolade in Matthew (Centurion is the other).

    10. Jesus answers her prayer without going anywhere.

II. How do you get in? Faith. (29-39)

A. Feels like a repeat of feeding of the 5,000. Lots of things are this same.

    1. Thousands of men + women and children.

    2. Bread and fish.

    3. Gave, gave, gave.

    4. Through his 12.

    5. Lots of leftovers.

B. Differences…a few.

    1. Biggest is likely that this was for Gentiles, not Jews.

    2. This is why I think the 12 did not suggest he feed them like he just fed the others. I don’t think it was a lack of faith but compassion. My take.

    3. One in spring and one in summer.

    4. One in Jewish territory and one in Gentile territory.

    5. Crowd with him one day vs 3 days.

    6. 7 instead of 12.

      1. 12 tribes of Israel

      2. 7 number of perfection & completeness = rest of the world; this is a huge takeaway Jesus would emphasize in the Great Commission.

C. Bottom line: How do you get healed and fed? Faith in Jesus Christ, the source of abundant life and life itself.

CONCLUSION

Have you been invited to the family feast to end all feasts? Yes.

Have you accepted it? How? By believing that there is an amazing feast that we do not deserve and that when we trust and follow Jesus Christ, he shows us the way there.

Will you trust and follow Jesus to the feast today?

What is God saying to you? What are you going to do about it?

Pray

NOTES

2 miracles

  1. Canaanite Woman (21-28)

    1. Least, last, lost

      1. Canaanite/Gentile/ancient enemy of Israel

      2. Woman

      3. Unclean—outside of Disciple’s comfort zone

    2. “Crying out”

      1. Desperate for her daughter—demon-possessed and suffering

      2. “Have mercy on me!” - desperate for herself too

      3. Human—she’s just like them just not a Jew

    3. Disciples reaction is to see her great need vs their great lack of resources; but maybe even more they don’t want to help her because of their prejudice

      1. Send her away—she’s not one of us

      2. She’s crazy desperate and Jesus seems to not want to help her (his silence) so they try to get rid of her for Jesus

    4. Jesus comes out with his mission—to the lost sheep of Israel

    5. She is persistent, desperate and believes in Jesus’ character and competencies

      1. “Lord”

      2. On her knees humility

      3. Wise words and perspective

    6. Jesus recognizes great faith and gives her her request

      1. Healing for daughter

      2. Healing for herself

      3. Witness to the Decapolis

    7. Who is Jesus and what will he do?

Who is Jesus?

What will he do?

Chief missionary, Disciple-maker/trainer, sent-one

Multiplying disciple-makers on his way to the ultimate example (cross, rez)

Lord/Son of David/ King/Messiah/Master

Exercising ultimate authority over all things including disease, demons, disciple-making

Merciful judge “Have mercy on me” as if she doesn’t deserve it

Exercising ultimate authority over all things including disease, demons, disciple-making

Deliverer/Savior/Healer

Save/Deliver; Exalt Gentile woman; Applauds her faith & persistence; save all people; not just Israel

Global King

Here for all nations

Suffering servant

Serve all people/nations

Provider; Groom

Feast together; satisfy/bless all nations

Jesus came to save, satisfy and serve all people. -Platt

OUTLINE BIBLE

SECTION OUTLINE FOURTEEN (MATTHEW 15)

Jesus confronts the Pharisees, teaches the crowds, and explains his teachings to Peter and the other disciples. He heals a Canaanite woman's daughter and feeds the 4,000.

1. THE MEETINGS (15:1-20)

A. Jesus' meeting with the Pharisees (15:1-9)

1. Their accusation (15:1-2): They accuse Jesus of breaking the

Mosaic law by permitting his disciples to ignore the ceremonial hand washing ritual before eating.

2. His condemnation (15:3-9)

a. Jesus speaks concerning their corruption (15:3-6): The Pharisees twist God's law in such a way that it allows them to ignore their responsibilities concerning their parents!

b. Jesus speaks concerning their character (15:7-9): Jesus calls the Pharisees hypocrites and says they fulfill Isaiah's terrible prophecy concerning them (Isa. 29:13).

B. Jesus' meeting with the people (15:10-11): Jesus tells the crowd that uncleanness is not caused by what goes into a person's mouth (nonkosher food) but rather by what comes out!

C. Jesus' meeting with Peter (15:12-20): He says the same thing to Peter and the disciples.

II. THE MIRACLES (15:21-39)

A. Healing a Canaanite woman's daughter (15:21-28)

1. The brokenhearted mother (15:21-23)

a. The place (15:21): Jesus is in the region of Tyre and Sidon.

b. The plea (15:22-23): A mother in this area begs him to heal her demon-possessed daughter.

2. The kindhearted Messiah (15:24-28)

a. His reminder (15:24-26): He tells her that his key ministry is to the Jews, not the Gentiles.

b. Her response (15:27-28)

(1) The reasoning (15:27): She agrees but asks for some of the crumbs that might fall from Israel's spiritual table.

(2) The reward (15:28): Jesus immediately grants her request.

B. Feeding the 4,000 (15:29-39): Jesus ministers to this group of 4,000 men as he did previously for the 5,000.

1. Meeting the needs of the hurting (15:29-31): Jesus heals the lame, blind, crippled, and the mute.

2. Meeting the needs of the hungry (15:32-39)

a. The amount of food (15:32-34): He has only seven loaves of bread and a few small fishes.

b. The abundance of food (15:35-39): Seven full baskets remain after all have eaten their fill!

Nicky Gumbel, Bible in one year, day, 14

Matthew 11:16-30

Accept the invitation to walk with Jesus

The teaching of Jesus is fascinating. In the first section of today’s passage he seems to be saying, ‘You can’t win.’ On the one hand, John the Baptist was an ascetic and was accused of being demon-possessed. On the other hand, Jesus went to parties with all kinds of people and made friends with those who were regarded as unsavoury characters. He was accused of being ‘a glutton and a drunkard’ and ‘a friend of tax collectors and sinners’ (v.18).

Whatever you do may be misinterpreted. Yet Jesus adds, ‘But wisdom is proved right by her actions’ (v.19). I take this to mean that all we can do is the right thing and not worry about what anybody else thinks. ‘Opinion polls don’t count for much, do they? The proof of the pudding is in the eating’ (v.19, MSG).

Jesus then denounces the cities that he has visited and performed miracles in, where people have neither repented nor believed. He suggests that their sin is worse than the sin of Sodom (v.24). The sin of unbelief is perhaps the most serious of all.

Jesus goes on to teach in such a way that it is clear that he believed in both predestination (that God has already determined everything that will happen) and free will. He teaches both alongside one another. It is a paradox. The two seemingly contradictory things are both true at the same time.

It is not 50% ‘predestination’ and 50% ‘free will’. Jesus says we are 100% predestined and we have 100% free will. This may seem impossible, but God is able to transcend and yet not distort human freedom. We ultimately see this in the incarnation: Jesus is 100% God and 100% human; he is fully God and fully human.

  • Predestination

    ‘All things have been committed to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him’ (v.27).

    Why God chooses to reveal himself to some and not to others is a mystery. It is certainly not based on wisdom and learning. Sometimes the great intellectuals simply cannot see it: ‘you have hidden these things from the wise and learned’ (v.25). And yet sometimes people of little or no education, or those who are very young (‘little children’, v.25), seem to have a very profound understanding of Jesus. ‘You’ve concealed your way from sophisticates and know-it-alls, but spelled them out clearly to ordinary people’ (v.25, MSG).

  • Free will

    Jesus says, ‘Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest’ (v.28). The invitation to come to Jesus is for everyone. No one is excluded. We are all invited. We all have a choice whether to accept the invitation of Jesus or to refuse it.

I find it difficult to get my mind around this paradox. However, I have found the following illustration helpful. Imagine a room with an arched doorway. The outside of the arch is inscribed with the words, ‘Come to me, all you…’ (v.28). Everyone is invited into the room. When you get into the room, on the inside of the same arch is written, ‘No one knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him’ (v.27b).

In other words, free will is a doctrine for everyone. No one can say, ‘I am not going to become a Christian because I have not been chosen.’ The invitation is to all. On the other hand, predestination is a doctrine of assurance for those who areChristians. Once you have accepted the invitation and entered, you can know that God has chosen you and therefore he will not let you go.

I love the fact that in a stressful world, where so many are ‘weary and burdened’, Jesus promises you rest. He offers to take your burdens and replace them with his own.

The yoke (something that Jesus would have made in the carpenter's shop) was a wooden frame joining two animals (usually oxen) at the neck, enabling them to pull a plough or wagon together. The function of the yoke is to make burdens easier to carry. I love this image of walking in step with Jesus, sharing our burdens, making the trials to be endured and the battles to be faced ‘easy’ and ‘light’ by comparison.

Jesus is not a slave driver. When you pursue his agenda for your life you carry a burden but it is ‘not harsh, hard, sharp, or pressing, but comfortable, gracious, and pleasant’ (v.30, AMP). When you do what Jesus asks you to do, he gives you the strength and wisdom to do it and you carry his burden with him. There will, of course, be many challenges and difficulties, but there will also be a lightness and ease.

Jesus says to you: ‘Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me – watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly’ (vv.28–29, MSG). Just relax and let God be God.

References/Bibliography:

“Preaching the Word” Commentary, Douglas Sean O’Donnell, Edited by Kent Hughes

“Matthew” by RC Sproul

“CSB Christ Chronological,” Holman

“The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC)

“The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC)

“Exalting Jesus in Matthew” by David Platt (CCE)

Outline Bible, D Willmington

NIV Study Bible (NIVSB)

ESV Study Bible

“Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes” by Kenneth E. Bailey

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